rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

cantwait84 Posted: Apr 30, 2007 08:24 AM

rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

ok, i know i already asked this before, but should you invite the minister/rabbi if you are not having an actual rehersal the night before. my fiance and i say no, but his mother says its customary. what are you doing?

DrWho Posted: Apr 30, 2007 08:38 AM

Re: rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

My officiant charges for a rehearsal, so we're not inviting her to the dinner, (which will be a backyard BBQ), and we're doing a run-through on the day of the wedding.

cantwait84 Posted: Apr 30, 2007 09:12 AM

Re: rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

so is it fair to say that there is no traditional etiquette? lol

diva7531 Posted: Apr 30, 2007 09:30 AM

Re: rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

We are inviting our officiant and as of now we are not having a rehersal. I figure we can do a quick run thru before dinner and then just enjoy!!!!

acsm Posted: Apr 30, 2007 09:34 AM

Re: rehersal dinner invitation question.... and a poll

we are not inviting him.. we are not having a run thru before the wedding... so our dinner is not a 'rehearsal' dinner but just a get together..

PattyK Posted: Apr 30, 2007 09:39 AM

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I voted no because we are not having a rehearsal prior to the wedding, but we are doing a run through the morning of our wedding. As of now our rehearsal dinner is going to be the day before the wedding and will probably be a backyard BBQ.