Relative vent!

So today my cousin calls my mom to tell her she won't be able to make it to my shower. Now...heres the thing...on the invite my sil(moh) put her phone number so that no one would be calling my house leaving messages that I would hear. My sil is sooo pissed that she didn't even atempt to call her to RSVP(she checked her caller ID). Here's what p i s s e s me off even more...her lame a s s excuse...she is coming home from vacation the night before and she will be too tired the next day to come. What a biotch! She didn't come to omy engagement party because she said she had to go to an open house for her son's PRE- PRENURSEY school....yes PRE PRENURSEY school! ***!!!!!!

Well at least now I know that my invites have been mailed out and I will be stalking our registry in full force!

But I still think my cousin is a big biotch!

WOW thats messed up!!! This is family!!! How could you not go??
I'm sure your shower isn't at 8am, she'll have time to rest and then go.

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Posted by SB7308

WOW thats messed up!!! This is family!!! How could you not go??
I'm sure your shower isn't at 8am, she'll have time to rest and then go.

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I know I heard my mom say 'It's not early in the morning....' She's a f-ing biotch!

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

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Posted by SB7308

WOW thats messed up!!! This is family!!! How could you not go??
I'm sure your shower isn't at 8am, she'll have time to rest and then go.

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I know I heard my mom say 'It's not early in the morning....' She's a f-ing biotch!

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Hope she doesnt come up with a pathetic excuse for your wedding.

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Posted by SB7308

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

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Posted by SB7308

WOW thats messed up!!! This is family!!! How could you not go??
I'm sure your shower isn't at 8am, she'll have time to rest and then go.

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I know I heard my mom say 'It's not early in the morning....' She's a f-ing biotch!

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Hope she doesnt come up with a pathetic excuse for your wedding.

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Oh....if she does that will be the last straw! I am fed up with this bull! I have gone to every single one of her parties...shower/ bachelorette party/wedding/ son's 1st b-day etc! It's sooo messed up....she thinks it's okay because she sends a gift. She can stick it you know where!

Some people just to think, or figure, im sure she wont find out.

Talk about selfish!!!

You realllllly don't WANT her to come do you?
Better for you if she just gets you a gift & doesn't take up a plate!

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Posted by znycgirl

You realllllly don't WANT her to come do you?
Better for you if she just gets you a gift & doesn't take up a plate!

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I'm pissed that she is NOT coming. She hasn't even seen me once since I've been engaged. (almost 2 yrs) I think she should make an effort to come. It's not about the gift...we are family....1st cousins....she went out of her way last year to go to our other cousin's fiance's shower which was an hour away!

omg that stinks, sorry you have to deal with that!!!!

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Posted by SB7308

WOW thats messed up!!! This is family!!! How could you not go??
I'm sure your shower isn't at 8am, she'll have time to rest and then go.

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I could not say it better. That is crazy.

that stinks

Isnt it so messed up how family can be to us? My two first cousins (one is my god daughter) wrote me a combined letter that they sent in the mail to tell me that they did not want to be in my bridal party because they did not want to make the persoanl and finacial comitment. (One of them just moved into an apt in the city----so much for haivng no money). Oh and I saw them 2 days before and could have told me in person. I was so mad at first but now I realized that I am better off without them.

It is your day do not let one person ruin a very impo and speical day in your life. You will have many many other people there for you. IF she feels she is too tired then let her sleep . It would better that she do that then coming to your party and being grumpy and cranky the whole time there and ruining your time.....

Some people are so self-centered. I am having some issues with 2 BMs who have done NOTHING to help me during this process. I asked them to organize the bach party and they acted like what I was asking for! They didn't even give me a card for my engagement!

thats just WRONGGGGGGGGGG

i am so sorry!! thats not an excuse!!!
people like that piss me off