Relieved!

I have been very close with a coworker for last 4 years. There was some minor BS about a month before I got engaged which made me think, 'I guess we aren't as close as I had thought...' so when it came to bridal party, I was torn but left it best not to ask her. We finally talked out the miscommunication and by summer everything was perfect again! It was killing me that she was the one girl in my 'group' not in my party and I wanted her in it-knots in my stomach, avoided wedding talk near her
I finally had the nerve today to talk to her and lay it all out for her and how horrible I felt that I hadn't had the nerve to be honest with her and at the same time didn't want her to feel like an 'add-on'. After weeping and weight off both of our shoulders that we said everything need to be said, I have a new bridesmaid!!!!
I am sooo excited! I just need to catch her up on plans, but not to where she feels like she missed a lot

Glad everything worked out! Congrats on your new bridesmaid!

That's awesome. Sometimes you just have to lay everything out on the table!

Glad you have a new bridesmaid!

thanks girls! her and my other BM's have been posting about it on fb! i guess they are all excited

I'm gald you worked it out!!!!! Yay!!!!