Repost - BHB '10 wedding fights and how to avoid'

http://liweddings.com/chat/topic-302224-1.html

Link to BHB post

Anybody else read this part and think, um that may be true but I'd still rather kill the biatch

10. The Past
He is good friends with an old girlfriend and wants her to attend the wedding. You wouldn't mind if she were dead.

Tessina minces no words on this topic. 'Oh, grow up. You've already won this battle -- he chose you. Don't mess up things now by being petty and jealous. Those are not becoming traits. Befriend her, get to know her, and you may like her yourself. Invite her to help with a shower. If you're too insecure to do that, perhaps you should rethink getting married. You may not be ready.' Michelle Gannon points out, 'You two need to discuss how involved ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends are going to be in your life together.'

Number 10 is null and void. It has nothing to do with being jealous and petty IMO it a matter of respect. I have been to a wedding before where the groom had some of his exes in attendance and I can't understand 1) Why he would choose to invite them and 2) Why they would choose to show up. Luckily I WON'T be having this problem because I'd. . . . . (HEY RON wheres that b**ch slap icon when you need it)

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Posted by 2Be1

Number 10 is null and void. It has nothing to do with being jealous and petty IMO it a matter of respect. I have been to a wedding before where the groom had some of his exes in attendance and I can't understand 1) Why he would choose to invite them and 2) Why they would choose to show up. Luckily I WON'T be having this problem because I'd. . . . . (HEY RON wheres that b**ch slap icon when you need it)

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I fully agree. I agree with most of the article except that. Seriously who wants some ex at your wedding. I think the petty, immature person invites the ex to rub it in her face. IMO