repost from 05-bm dress pics...long

SFP0214 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:30 PM

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Laura1976 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:33 PM

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I like this dress, its one of the contenders for my BM's. I have 7 bridesmaids, and have come to the conclusion, that they will never all agree on the same dress. The final choice is yours, find a dress you love, and that they all look good in and leave it at that. To many cooks spoil the broth, if you know what I mean!

prncssrachel Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:37 PM

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I think your first mistake was giving them a choice. I say tell them all too bad, here's three dresses, you all choose ONE of them and that's that. I'm serious. You shouldn't be the one compromising that way. It IS your wedding and why should your BMs look any other way than the way YOU want them to? Maybe I might seem like a beyotch, but that's not cool. It's your wedding, they need to deal.

SFP0214 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:38 PM

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i do know what you mean. I just tend to get overpowered when my mom and MOH get together..... and the worst is they don't even agree on anything so all of my choices were thrown out by someone.
Oh well they are pretty dresses though. They will look nice at my location.

Finoflynn Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:40 PM

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I am laughing as i read your post bc I could have posted this very thing...i too have many BM and want them ALL to be happy. I am IMing two as I write showing them ideas online. I think you need to go with what you want and what YOU lie, and trust that they will wear what you choose bc they are your BM. I wish you luck!!!!!

February05 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 06:49 PM

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i'm sorry they were so rough on you today!!

tell them that if they dont compromise, youre going to make them wear this dress

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SFP0214 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 07:06 PM

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Butterflybride Posted: Sep 19, 2004 07:10 PM

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I guess I'm mean, because I'm not giving my BM's a choice

February05 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 07:42 PM

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Posted by Butterflybride

I guess I'm mean, because I'm not giving my BM's a choice

i didnt either.. and they were all happy w/ the dress.

DCSAAB06 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 07:47 PM

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Posted by neeniebean86

i'm sorry they were so rough on you today!!

tell them that if they dont compromise, youre going to make them wear this dress

Now that is hysterical!!

April302005 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 07:51 PM

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Do what I did and just pick one and they HAVE to wear it!!!

BriBri529 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 08:42 PM

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Posted by 121502

I think your first mistake was giving them a choice. I say tell them all too bad, here's three dresses, you all choose ONE of them and that's that. I'm serious. You shouldn't be the one compromising that way. It IS your wedding and why should your BMs look any other way than the way YOU want them to? Maybe I might seem like a beyotch, but that's not cool. It's your wedding, they need to deal.

This is what it ended coming down to for me. Honestly, I was able to please the majority and that was good enough for me because it is impossible to please everyone.