I have a very important question for all of you. My mom and dad have passed away and I have the best friends (bridal party) in the world. I am so lucky to have them. Well, my bridal party is throwing my bridal shower and I am afraid that the guest list is way to long. So, I was thinking about telling them not to worry about it being a surprise and that they can have it in my backyard so that they could save some money. For me, it's not about having an extravagant party, but about being with my friends and family. I don't want to offend them, though. What would you do? Thanks!
JenNeen
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I think that is fine. It's not about the surprise. If they disagree they will tell you so. Can't hurt to have the convo.
Ang&Rich
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What if FH stepped in to help the girls with logestics? This way time (maybe not place) are still a surprise for you?
hmpena
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I think that is very kind of you. I agree that maybe your FH could help arrange this. Mention it to him and see what he says. If he agrees, then he can suggest this to your bridal party.
july0105
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Thanks girls! I will def. talk to my FI and see if he will help -- I am sure he will. Who knew things could be so complicated?!!
