Repost from BHB

Hello ladies.. I am getting really excited-my matron of honor called me to ask for numbers for my shower.. she said she needs them very soon.

FH's family is pretty big and mine is smaller. My fsil had her shower in April and from what I understand, there were a lot of people on her list!

is there an etiquette for how many people to invite from both sides? MOH says that there should be more from my side.. is this true??

I need some input!

TIA