Repost from BHB: The Bachelor Party

So, I am really worried about my fiance's bachelor party. I COMPLETELY trust my fiance but I don't trust his friends or his brothers.

I'm so worried that they will pour alcohol down his throat to the point where he has no idea what is going on. I've heard them talk about going away for the weekend and having strippers!

I'm also scared since one of my fiance's other friends got married in November 2003 and for his bachelor party, some of the very same guys tried to get my fiance's friend to sleep with the stripper!

I've talked to my sweetie about what I think is inappropriate (strippers touching him, him touching strippers) and he assures me that he's never been into that and doesn't want that at his party.

But that still doesn't stop the icky feeling in the pit of my belly!

How are all of you dealing with this?

I'm letting it go and remembering it's just ONE day in the grand scheme of things.

They can pour alcohol down his throat until he passes out...it won't 'make' him sleep with or touch someone inappropriately. I trust him with all my heart, with my life, and no matter what 'influences' he might have that night, it will never be any match for the life we have planned and the love we share. I know he would never do anything to hurt me and I have faith in him to make decisions that are good for both of us.

So don't worry about 'his friends' or what they could 'do'. They can do whatever they want to do, the bottom line is that your FH loves you and wants to marry you. Concentrate on that!