REPOST - quick poll from BHB

OK, so a friend I barely speak to, but invited to our wedding because we WERE close in college and b/c I run into her at other people's weddings, emailed me yesterday and said she wanted to know if she was invited with a guest... she said she just wondered cuz it didn't say on the envelope but she was looking into coming and getting a hotel (cuz she lives in FL and the wedding is in NY)... and she said she's living with her ex-boyfriend now and wouldn't know anyone at the wedding.

We're honestly trying to cut down on numbers AND she and I never talk except at other people's weddings a few times a year... But if she's coming from out of state, I feel bad - so do you think I should just let her bring a guest???

thanks!!!


ETA: she DOES know a few other people at the wedding actually... a couple of our other good friends... but 2 out of the 3 people that are coming that she knows do have fiances that will be attending.

IMO, let her bring a date.

I would let her bring a date especially if she's
traveling from Florida.

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Posted by tann22



I would let her bring a date especially if she's
traveling from Florida.

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me too-

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Posted by dleeny

IMO, let her bring a date.

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I agree...

If you can't afford one more person, explain to her your position. If she 's a friend she'll understand.
But I would let her bring a date otherwise.