response card dilemma
Am I the only one who is worried about the date on the response card regarding the A and B list? We have a B list that we can only invite if we get 'no's from some of the A listers. I am afraid that if people wait until the rsvp date to respond, the B list will clearly know that they are the B list because of the response date. Is anyone considering making up a separate response card with a later date for the B list invites? Is it a waste of $??? Help! My mom says to order the two sets, but I fell like I have never heard of anyone else doing that!
