Still have 48 outstanding Responses. Several of witch are from Bridal Party/Parents.
We of course know that they will be there but several were invited with guests so we need to know if they are bringing someone.
Did you Bridal Party/Parents send their response cards?
I (naively) only left 3 1/2 weeks between response date and wedding date so I'm starting to get a bit anxious. Thanks!
patti08
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bumping...anyone? 28 views no answers?
DecBride04
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Patti I will answer you! I haven't really stressed over the responses yet. There dead line is Nov 12th, so hopefully they all get in. Each day there are a few in my mailbox, so not stressing yet. I agree though about the bridal party... why can't they be 1st to send it back. We are still waiting on our Best Man and he has a serious girlfriend.... Don't worry about this till it gets closer to your RSVP date.... Worry about other things now, like making out the menu or something like that. Anne
lillian771
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I've been in several wedding parties, and have responded to some of the invitations and not to others, depending on how close I was to the bride or groom. As far as guests go, you may just have to make some phone calls to your wedding party to ask them...they might just be assuming you know. A lot of times people don't realize how much a bride has to do at the last minute!
divabride
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Why dont you just call them and find out. It's rude of them not to respond, but you need to know so give them a call!!
septbride
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Just give them a call to send them back, especially if it's close family and the bridal party.
patti08
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Thanks!!!!!
MrsJ
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Some responded. Some didnt. My MOH/sister did not, Dad did not, FHs parents did not... Pain in the *** actually!
fairylise
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I have the same problem!!! My response date is the 23rd of this month and we still have alot missing, some of which are BP members!!! I will be calling them the day after they are due and asking them to send it in!
tourist
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Our best man was one of the last to send his back.
My in laws never did send theirs back. They wanted to keep it all in tact. Mine sent theirs back.
dpli
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It's funny, the people in the wedding, or family assume you know they are coming. I talked to my brother last night and said, 'you are all coming, right?' And he said, 'Of course, what did you think?' so I told him I hadn't gotten his card back. He replied that he barely gets his bills mailed out, never mind that thing.
The ones who bug me are the Out of Towners who don't respond. By now, they must know, one way or the other, please, just mail the card back, so I don't have to call you......I don't want to put anyone down as a no yet, since my deadline date is the 23rd, but I am getting a little anxious!
Annette
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My sister's came in on Monday, although of course we knew her and the boys (both RBs) and her hubby were coming. 2 of my BMs haven't replied, and one mentioned it yesterday, apologizing for it. That hasn't worried me yet, as our date is 10/31 AND apparently the invites are taking forever to get to people!!! That bothered me more, as well as getting 2 replies saying 'and guest' although only the individual was invited. Thought that was cheeky, but hey, the more the merrier! Gulp.
Janine24
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I would say about 1/2 of the BP sent back their response... they just assumed we knew they were going... I did make some calls to confirm who was bringing a guest...
