Both of our parents are paying for our engagement party. Both of our mothers are listed to RSVP to, but whose address is put on return label? I would put mine but his mother is sensitive about this kind of stuff. I mean, I have the invites at my house so I would assume my address would be fine... opinions?
2013Bride
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I'd say your address. You're the bride afterall!
teacherteacher
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If it were up to me, I'd agree with you 100%. If invites are at your house, and you being the bride, why not just send them to your address.
But, I'm really insensitive so depending on how touchy your FMIL is about this, you could have return addresses with her info on it for the groom's side?
I think it's worth talking to her and explaining the important thing is that people rsvp and you have all their info - if things are going to two different houses, someone could get lost in the shuffle, and neither of your families would want that!
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Posted by teacherteacher
If it were up to me, I'd agree with you 100%. If invites are at your house, and you being the bride, why not just send them to your address.
But, I'm really insensitive so depending on how touchy your FMIL is about this, you could have return addresses with her info on it for the groom's side?
I think it's worth talking to her and explaining the important thing is that people rsvp and you have all their info - if things are going to two different houses, someone could get lost in the shuffle, and neither of your families would want that!
This!!
Courtz
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RSVP's are going to the Mom's, so that's equal and fair. It's only the address from where they are being sent... I think your address is the fair one to put.
Pretty_In_Pink
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I think the return label should be FMIL, only because RSVP's are going to her right? So it looks like they are throwing the party.
