RH please help

I am getting married at Sunset Harbour, and I just got a flyer in the mail that they will be having an outside bar and grill opening up in May, and that they will be doing karaoke every friday night from 7-11, music on sat from 7-11, and brunch and happy hours on sundays!!!! I am really concerned that during my friday night wedding I am going to hear people singing stupid karaoke songs while I'm having my first dance or something. Also I'm nervous that there will be strangers walking around and mingling with my guests, and even eating the food! My ch is at 7 and will be outside. Also I have spoke to people that have been to weddings there where it had gotten warm in the room and they opened the doors to get some air so we could hear the karaoke. Also I am worried about the fact that people will be able to come into my wedidng to use the bathroom. Now I'm worried about my gifts getting stolen. I spoke to someone there this morning and they assured me that it 'shouldn't' interfere, and they will 'do their best' to keep it separate! What if my guests go outside to have a cigarette or get some air? They have to hear people singing! Now I have to go down there and see how it is possible that it won't interfere, but I don't know what I'm going to do! I just want to cry!!! Ugh!!! Thanks for reading ladies? Any advice?

I'm sorry this is going on....Hopefully it won't be anywhere near as bad as it sounds. I'm sure your RH will do their best to keep your wedding and the karaoke as separate as they can. You just have to remember the important thing that day, which is you get to marry your FH!!! And no amount of karaoke will stop you!!!!!

im so sorry u r feeling yucky...i would call the rh and justtal 2 them about it..they have to have a way that they deal with both tings going on at once..they done it before i assume...i have no doubts everything will be perfect but if it gives u some peace call them up..hope u feel better

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Posted by littlepixie12

I am so sorry... Any good catering hall esp that deals with wedding would never let the guests see each other's parties.. although I have never heard of RH doing this bar thing... Im sure its not as bad as it sounds, but honestly I would def go check it out

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ITA!!! First off, I'm so sorry you have to deal with this. But I would definitely try to 'crash' yourself one Friday, just to see how much of an interference there really is. It may put your mind at ease, or at least give you a valid point to bring up to them, firsthand experience and all. Good luck!

don't have much advice to offer but just wanted to offer my sympathies as I'm going through RH drama this week too. . I agree that it prob won't be as bad as you think but hearing Karaoke would drive me crazy too!! but I also say go check it out and see how bad it is. .

I would be worried b/c I have two friends who would probably LEAVE my wedding to go sing karokae