When are you asking and (not to sound dumb) are you asking the parents or the kid, lol and how are you asking
**edited to add another question**
CloudNine
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well my ring bearers and flower girl are brothers and sister..they are my brothers kids....we all kinda just knew that they were gonna be in it....when i asked my brother and sister-in-law to be in our bridal party i just mentioned it again
jesca
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Posted by CloudNine
well my ring bearers and flower girl are brothers and sister..they are my brothers kids....we all kinda just knew that they were gonna be in it....when i asked my brother and sister-in-law to be in our bridal party i just mentioned it again
yea, i'm only have two MOHs as my bridal party, then the ring bearer and flower girls. I'm asking my MOHs at the E-party but there wont be any kids at the party, so I dont know if i should ask the parents then or wait.
SummerBride10
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I'm having 3 flower girls (My little cousins are VERY close in age, right now they're 3,4,&5 so I had to have 3!!). I asked the two mothers (two are sisters) at a family together, then I asked the girls who were VERY excited. I'm thinking of asking another little girl, I'm close with too though (she's actually my cousin's cousin, but I see her just as much as I see my cousins!!)
jesca
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talking to my mom now i'm thinking of waiting till christmas so the kids will actually be there, idk tho.
SummerBride10
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talking to my mom now i'm thinking of waiting till christmas so the kids will actually be there, idk tho.
Maybe you can ask the parents first...have them not tell the kids, and then later on ask the kids in your own special way?? With a cute gift or something?
CristinanBen2010
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I might wait until X mas to tell everyone, Im only telling my sis about her being my maid of honor probably this week. So I wouldnt worry if you didnt ask them yet.
soontoobemrsk
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I would ask their parents first and then ask the kids. If the parents arent comfortable with it (or arents able to handle it financially), at least the kids wont know about it yet and wont be disappointed.
LouMar2010
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as of right now i have decided no flower girls/rig bearers in the wedding party.
a friend of mine asked the parents first and then asked the child. i think she did it about a year before the wedding.
