Ringbearers, Flower girls and Junior Bridesmaids

Renee77 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 12:58 AM

Ringbearers, Flower girls and Junior Bridesmaids

I wasn't sure if there was an age cut-off for ringbearers....6 and under? flower girls? Junior Bridesmaids?

Help!

TIA

NYCGirl2008 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 01:12 AM

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I think there are no rules.

But here is what I did:

My FGs are 3 & 6
RBs are 3 & 4
Junior BM is 11 (technically her dress is a FG dress but it does match the BMs)

KimiDanny1010 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 01:40 AM

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i agree...i don't think there are any rules either !

i'm only having a flowergirl and she will be 8 when i get married...

SummerBride10 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 07:04 AM

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My flower girls will be 5,6,&7. I dont think theres a cut off age, but I think at some point a girl would feel too old to be a FG.

Wifeynella Posted: Jul 21, 2008 08:03 AM

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usually ring bearers and flowergirls are 4-8.

jr. bridemaids are 9-13/14.

my flower girls are 3, 4 & 4. My jr. bms are 9 & 10.

no ring bearers.

mrsjpc3 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 12:03 PM

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We are having 3 FG's (3, 4, 5). We decided we did not want the whole Jr BM thing going on. His other niece who will be 10 was dying to be a FG. However, I think that is a little bit too old.. JMO.

Valerie-Joe Posted: Jul 21, 2008 12:08 PM

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My ring bearer will be a little over 1 1/2. My ring bearer bearer (his dad) will walk him down the aisle. I'm sure you could find exact rules on some etiquette web site, but these days when people use their dogs - I don't think you have to abide by any rules.

ttdiff11 Posted: Jul 21, 2008 12:55 PM

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my fg's will be 2 and 4 and im not having a ring bearer

sarahdavid Posted: Jul 21, 2008 01:10 PM

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Mine RB will be 5 and my FG will be 2....I'll be lucky if she makes it down the aisle. There are not rules, you can do whatever you want for your wedding!