rsvp date for b list ???

So question - girls if you are sending out invites to your b list how do you not make it look obvious from the rsvp date that they are obvious. . meaning my rsvp cards say by May 4th but if I am mailing them next week - won't it look strange? can I just change the date on the card or should I try to print up some different cards? It's only for about 8 people. .. TIA!!!

I think you should go ahead and leave the date...Im not sending any of mine out till next week and I want a reply by May 9th, so you'll be fine . Have a great weekend!!