RSVP Drama

Well it happened to me - I got an RSVP with a plus 1 that was not invited with a guest!!!! Honestly, how rude can people be! Naturally, it is someone on FMIL's side so now I have to call her tomorrow and tell her she needs to call her neice and tell her that she can't bring a date because we have no room! And of course, FMIL is going to tell me that it's no big deal because she is paying for any extra guests on her side anyway. At which time I am going to have to remind her that the favors were ordered months ago when our FINAL guest list was 125 and I ordered 140 favors just in case - and now our guest list is at 140 because she 'forgot' people and had to add them. So I have no favor for this extra UNINVITED person therefore they cannot come. Can't wait for that conversation!!! How can you possibley be SO rude and add a guest to your RSVP card when you were clearly invited by yourself ESPECIALLY when you have never even MET the bride!!!! That's right - I have never met this girl in my life and she has decided to add to my guest list.

Sorry this is long - thanks for listening - ok, vent over.