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RSVP Envelopes

MIssBridalBliss Posted:

RSVP Envelopes

Fh and I are doing black pocketfold invites, they are pretty elegant. I just am not certain who to address the RSVP envelopes to: me, both of us or my mom. Also, FH and I don't live together. Any thoughts girls?

DeannaNDave07 Posted:

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i had them sent back to DH and I... we paid for the whole wedding and we wanted to handle everything... it was alot easier this way!

MrsJ08 Posted:

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Its usually to the person who is hosting the party whether it be you and your FH, or your parents etc...Mine is 1/2 and 1/2 I think I am putting my parents as RSVP

Jenn04 Posted:

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We ordered the invites, are sending them out and are tracking the attendees so we put both our names (we live together).

MIssBridalBliss Posted:

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See, we don't live together. we moved back home to save for the wedding. so I am just not sure.

MayWeddingGrl Posted:

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I had it sent back to me since FH and I are the ones that are paying for it.

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted:

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Fh and I are paying for the wedding but we don't live together yet..it's ok to have the RSVP's sent back to me right, or should I have both of our names on it....being that we are paying for it together.

jtgarsik Posted:

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Posted by SOTHISISLOVE53109

Fh and I are paying for the wedding but we don't live together yet..it's ok to have the RSVP's sent back to me right, or should I have both of our names on it....being that we are paying for it together.



just u I had the rsvp's addressed to me. same scenario as u
Snick n Nick Posted:

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We are having ours sent back to my parents....FH and I both live in apartments and have tiny mailboxes. My parents are paying and technically 'hosting' the wedding, and they're both retired, so they will be tracking the responses! (their mail is much more reliable...FH and I both have tiny boxes in big banks of Apt mailboxes...no good!)

JulyBride728 Posted:

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Use your last name and your FH last name and address it that way.

i.e.

Smith-James
555 E. 95th Street
New York, NY 10000


Put your last name first
MIssBridalBliss Posted:

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That's a good idea. Thanks!

mrsblesie2b Posted:

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I'm having them sent back to me

evnme Posted:

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i had them sent to me b/c DH and i paid for the whole thing (we weren't living together at the time either).
if you are over 18, write Ms. Jane Doe, if you are younger than 18, write Miss Jane Doe

but if your mom is paying for the whole thing, put your mom's name
bluegreen08 Posted:

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my parents are hosting, so their names

PreshusSmurf Posted:

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They should go back to whomever is paying for the bulk of the wedding.

BUT if they are going to be sent back to you, you should use the title of Ms. (unless you're under 18 years old )
MIssBridalBliss Posted:

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I am over 30 so Ms. it is! thanks again ladies.

PegaLega Posted:

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My RSVPs were addressed to my planners address

mRm2008 Posted:

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Posted by JulyBride728

Use your last name and your FH last name and address it that way.

i.e.

Smith-James
555 E. 95th Street
New York, NY 10000


Put your last name first


I like that
mjay Posted:

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Posted by Jenn04

We ordered the invites, are sending them out and are tracking the attendees so we put both our names (we live together).



This is my exact situation.

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