RSVP Madness

Our RSVP date was Friday we sent out 86 invitations totaling 162 people. AS of this afternoon we are missing 20 rsvp cards roughly 40 people! The kicker is 3 rsvp cards are from my side 17 from FH's side. Looks like FH has some work to do

I'm not stressing they are all no's in my book until I hear otherwise. I refuse to stress about this!