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RSVP No's and gift

sept09bride Posted:

RSVP No's and gift

If you receive a rsvp that they can't make it and they send a gift, do you send the thank you now or when you send the wedding thank you's?

JennyAPH Posted:

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Honestly I have no idea but I would think you should send one now.. I had to RSVP no to someones wedding but I sent a gift and never heard from them. I checked the tracking on the package and it said it was left on their door step. so now im freaking out that they never got it to begin with
allegracristina Posted:

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Hi!! Congrats!! About 5 days before the wedding, I wrote out about 10-15 thank you's (just used my cute bridal-y ones) for wedding gifts I had received before the wedding. They were mostly people who weren't coming, but a lot of my mom's friends sent wedding gifts off our registry so we thanked them ahead of time and will also send them a photo thank you when we do those. Good luck! I would do some now just to be polite and then you don't have to think about it again. Trust me, you're not going to have a minute once the RD rolls around.
Amberrenee6705 Posted:

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I sent them out as soon as I got the gift, I had so many things going on and after the wedding you hae a TON of thank you's to write...I didnt want to forget anyone :o)

jbirney Posted:

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I would send the thank you when you send the rest of the thank you's for the wedding.

bigrd37 Posted:

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i sent thank you's to those who gave gifts before the wedding. I even had a cousin send a check with his response card and he came to the wedding too. guess he didn't want to worry about bringing it later!

I actually sent a simple note card thank you before the wedding and then the official thank you card to those people again, after the wedding. so they had our pictures.
gina409 Posted:

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i would do it now..u run the risk of forgetting,and if cause u want to use one with a pic from the wedding..after i would just write out a blank card witht he pic in and say,thought u might want this picture from the wedding and thanks again

sept09bride Posted:

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thanks everyone! i will definitely send one now - i felt funny waiting til the other thank you's since its so much later
twoifbysea Posted:

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Posted by gina409

i would do it now..u run the risk of forgetting,and if cause u want to use one with a pic from the wedding..after i would just write out a blank card witht he pic in and say,thought u might want this picture from the wedding and thanks again



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