Our RSVP date is October 1st I udnerstand people have some time left but there are a lot missing and I have a bad feeling they won't all respond.
How long did you ladies wait to start calling them and harassing? lol
dgirl0114
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I gave them another week to get them in & then started emailing or calling.
nycerika318
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I gave them a week and then called because our caterer demanded a final #, and we paid him this week. However, it is up to you. They are late since they missed the RSVP date, so you are free to harass
MissAngel
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Our RSVP date is 10/3, but we're going to wait until 10/10 to start calling. As much as the waiting will kill me, some girls have made a valid point in that guests tend to think that they need to drop it in the mail by the RSVP date. That being the case, the extra week will give them time to be delivered...
Krisjc2178
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Our RSVP date is tomorrow and we are still missing quite a few... I actually already emailed a couple of people just saying we are trying to get in touch with everyone we haven't heard from. It annoys me so much...a couple of my BM were like ooo , you know we are coming.. Im like just send it back - I didnt waste a stamp and response card in your invite for nothing! Some people are so rude...geeze.
chellynyc
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We are missing over 100 and our RSVP date is also Oct. 1st.....we're going to give it an extra week before we start hunting ppl. down.
Lemons
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ok get this...my rsvp date is October 5th and FH is sooooo anxious that he already started calling people!
bonitachyc
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the very next day!
there is no time for shenanigans i need to know and i need to know NOW!
JessMxPx88
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trust me, you will get a LOT of rsvp's right before your rsvp date and on your actual rsvp date, and some even a few days after the rsvp date, so dont worry about it yet. I worried bc i was missing so many the week before my rsvp date but then everyone responded last minute and we only had to call 2 people.
ali120206
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I was going to wait a week but, most of the missing responses were friends of our parents and family that they needed to contact as well. They got on it right away!
lilqtpie2181
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i guess it all depends on how long u gave uself btw ur rsvp date and the date u need to give ur final headcount to ur hall but i would say like a week.