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RSVP Question

JennyAPH Posted:

RSVP Question

Will I see a ton come in the last few weeks of my RSVP date? I have 19 days to go and am missing 52 RSVP's that accounts for 103 people.

No idea why but I am beyond frustrated with this and a little hurt. My grandparents haven't even RSVP'ed and none of the bridal party except my sister.
he gives me butterflies Posted:

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i just sent mine out and got a few hand responses delivered, but my grammie actually told me that she is coming, but will not be sending back the card b/c she wants to keep it as a keepsake. maybe yours is doing the same...?

JennyAPH Posted:

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Posted by he gives me butterflies

i just sent mine out and got a few hand responses delivered, but my grammie actually told me that she is coming, but will not be sending back the card b/c she wants to keep it as a keepsake. maybe yours is doing the same...?



Def not.. they didn't even acknowledge that they recieved the invite

My gram is not a keepsake kind of person either.
Just Cindy Posted:

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I am missing over 2/3's of my RSVP's and the due date is 8/12 so I expect to be calling people very soon.

LadyDuda81509 Posted:

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i hear ya!!! its soo annoying!! especially the people who know they are going to be there, and its not even an option like your bridal party and your grandparents!

i got FH's brother (who is also a groomsman) his response card on sunday!!! when the RSVP date was like 2 weeks before that! and he hand delivered it!
jmbc2377 Posted:

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I didn't. I received most of them right away - I think I had 85 yes in the first 2 weeks. Then it died down and was more spaced out. They are still trickling in and the rsvp was a week ago.

NayNay3021 Posted:

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My Rsvp due date is Saturday and I am missing like 40 of them...which works out to be like 70 ppl....I am beyond annoyed!!!! This whole week so far, I have not received any in the mail. What the heck man?
FutureMrsG Posted:

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My RSVP date was Tuesday and I am still missing replies from 36 people.

gina409 Posted:

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that stinks!!!! im sorry..i hope they come in for u....what i hate the most is when i see someone and go areu going to rsvp and they go,well u know im coming

i say anyone who u r close to like bridal parry,grandparents give them a call to remind..also make ur fb status say something about it maybe it will remind people

i swear after going through rsvps with this wedding i will never ever forget to rsvp to something cause it ***** to be waiting on them from other people
JennyAPH Posted:

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Posted by gina409

that stinks!!!! im sorry..i hope they come in for u....what i hate the most is when i see someone and go areu going to rsvp and they go,well u know im coming

i say anyone who u r close to like bridal parry,grandparents give them a call to remind..also make ur fb status say something about it maybe it will remind people

i swear after going through rsvps with this wedding i will never ever forget to rsvp to something cause it ***** to be waiting on them from other people



Def going to put something on facebook!!
lilmartha59 Posted:

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for me i got a lot of yes's at the beginning then a few here and there...then about 5 days to the RSVP date i got a lot of both yes and nos but somehow still missing 30...at this point im taking verbal answers which i said i wouldnt do

swcheppes Posted:

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I would check with the bridal party. They probably think it's a given they are coming and don't need to send the rsvp back...I know it's very hard to drop a card in the

I have this problem with mostly FH guys. Boys!
JennyAPH Posted:

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Posted by swcheppes

I would check with the bridal party. They probably think it's a given they are coming and don't need to send the rsvp back...I know it's very hard to drop a card in the

I have this problem with mostly FH guys. Boys!



None of FH's friends have RSVP'ed.. but we know they are coming bc they were talking about getting a limo so they can all drink.. SO RSVP
Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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My RSVP date was 8/4 and Im still missing 133 people
FutureMrsM Posted:

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Posted by JennyAPH


Posted by he gives me butterflies

i just sent mine out and got a few hand responses delivered, but my grammie actually told me that she is coming, but will not be sending back the card b/c she wants to keep it as a keepsake. maybe yours is doing the same...?



Def not.. they didn't even acknowledge that they recieved the invite

My gram is not a keepsake kind of person either.



Don't be surprised if you don't get them... I have people that told me they mailed it out the same day that they received them and I still have not gotten them, they mailed them almost a month ago locally. At least a half dozen of them! Who knows how many others are lost too! I figured I would wait until the RSVP date and then start making calls I called the post office today to see if they can figure out what happened, they'll call me back in 24 hours

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