If one of your pretty good friends (who also came to your shower) sent back the response card and said 'no,' would you call/text them and ask them why?
TIA!
IrishAli
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I might ask if she has to be somewhere else that day?
jettahot
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I absolutely would. But thats just the kind of gal I am. Very forward lol
Soon2BMrsJoeBear
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what if i said something like 'aw, wish you could be there.. sorry you have to miss it!'
Do you think she would tell me? Just such an AWKWARD conversation to have!
JTG4EVER
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Posted by Soon2BMrsJoeBear
what if i said something like 'aw, wish you could be there.. sorry you have to miss it!'
Do you think she would tell me? Just such an AWKWARD conversation to have!
Yes...this is what i would do!
ImgonnabeMrsC
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2 of my closer friends can't come either, and when I asked them they were like 'oh we planned a vacation together that weekend!' I'd ask!
jettahot
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Honestly, I would just ask. I would say something like 'OMg what happened that you cant make it' It is awkward, yes, but I would do it anyway. JMO
Yankeeelove
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No I think I would just wait for her to come to me and explain why she's not coming.
futuremrstaheri
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I'd ask, especially if they knew about your wedding for a while
Moonmist09
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i wouldn't ask her, but the next time you see her, she will probably feel guilty enough that she will mention why - its like the giant elephant in the room
