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RSVP rant

CantWait2Wed Posted:

RSVP rant

Our e-party is on June 12th. The RSVP date was the 24th. My mother and I were all over ordering food and the cake, buying decorations, etc yesterday. Now, TODAY, a relative decided to RSVP and supposedly all of his kids are coming (they weren’t on the invitation) WITH DATES (really not on the invite!) So now I have ten more people coming and I need to order more food and change my cake order. What is wrong with people? I really hope this is not a sign of things to come.

Ok, I'm done. Thanks for listening!
VCanizalez Posted:

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OMG UR KIDDING ME?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



omg I CANT DESCRIBE HOW MAD THIS IS AMKIGN ME BC I AM STARTING TO GET MY RSVP CALLS TOO AND I AM SO NERVOUS I WILL GET THAT....

Danielle41209 Posted:

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Can you tell them its too late? or only those invited are allowed to come??? That's not fair to you or your family who's taking time to help you out. Ridiculous!!!
CantWait2Wed Posted:

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It is just so rude. On one hand, I'm glad they called because at least I'll be prepared. I hope your family is more considerate!

NellieBellie32 Posted:

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you cant tell them its too late bc it is family.....but also since it is family you could go to them and at least say you know u missed the rsvp date.....that is ballsy tho to bring the kids WITH DATES. They better give u a nice gift....haha

BlushandBashful Posted:

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Ugh, that is annoying. On the bright side though, I know I would rather have people RSVP to attend late, rather than at the last minute cancel or not show up.
FutureJOC Posted:

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I would be fuming! That is such BS!
angelabarra12 Posted:

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ughh that is annoying!!! dont stress though it will all work out and ull be enjoying yourself at ur party soon enough!!

kedra5 Posted:

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I'd definitely just find a nice way to say something the day of ONLY BECAUSE you dont want this to happen to you on your wedding date....you never know if they would do this to you then too!

Thats-What-She-Said Posted:

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I'm sorry but you need to nip this in the bud right now. If you feel obligated to keep them then you will prob have to up your food, but don't bother with the cake. It will be an unnecessary expense and no one will notice.

andreahowie2011 Posted:

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That's pretty ballsy.

My RSVP date for my e-party was today and I still have not heard from one good friend of mine, who I have contacted three times already!! ***?! A little immatureeeeee. Like, will I have to chase this person down for the wedding??!!
Jessc4985 Posted:

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sooo frustrating!!!

TheFutureMrs2011 Posted:

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LaBellaVita622 Posted:

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I don't get where people get the nerve!!

Burhart1111 Posted:

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Posted by kedra5

I'd definitely just find a nice way to say something the day of ONLY BECAUSE you dont want this to happen to you on your wedding date....you never know if they would do this to you then too!



Agreed. Try to maybe joke with them....like, 'maybe you should turn in your RSVP for the wedding now so you don't forget!' Hopefully they have a sense of humor!!
Chanwich Posted:

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family or not, I would be on the phone with them, saying that not only did it **** that they rsvp'd late, but I would sure let them know that their kids are not allowed to bring a date. You are a nicer person than me for accomodating them. I have no patience for that crap!

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