RSVP return envelope

Brooklynbride Posted: Apr 24, 2008 09:50 AM

RSVP return envelope

What name did you put on them? FH and I live together, do I just put my name and our address or shall I put both our names?

Need to do ASAP

PreshusSmurf Posted: Apr 24, 2008 10:20 AM

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It depends who is paying for the majority of the wedding. My parents paid for most of it, so the RSVPs went to them. I liked the traditional aspect of doing it that way too.

If you & your FH live together, I would recommend just putting your name and leaving FH's name off. Some of your older guests may not 'approve' of you two living together, and no need to advertise it

diva7531 Posted: Apr 24, 2008 12:07 PM

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I agree with Jess

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Apr 24, 2008 04:17 PM

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ours had both or last names like this:

SMITH - JONES
and then our address

tela Posted: Apr 29, 2008 09:53 AM

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For us we just put my last name, DH didn't seem to care.

MsPotterhead Posted: Apr 30, 2008 12:37 AM

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Wow, I wish I read this a while ago! Just sent ours out-- my mom and FH's dad are paying for a lot, but we are doing all of the organizing, so we had them sent to us. There is no way my mom or Fh's dad could take care of the rsvps, we used both our names and our address.
Oh well! Do you think people really care or notice?

amytee Posted: Apr 30, 2008 03:36 PM

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I think it depends on who is going to be responsible for counting them and keeping track (if it's between you or a parent).....& I guess if someones parents are paying the majority of it, the RSVP's would go to them. Me and dh lived together & planned everything so we put both of our names on them. But I agree, I don't think people pay much attention to whos name is on the RSVP return address.