RSVP Vent - Need advice
We are still waiting on two people to give us definitive answers for the wedding. Our response date was last Thursday, and we have followed up with everyone. But, here are the two situations that I need help with:
1) My friend is pregnant and due two weeks before my wedding. I assumed she wouldn't come, but when I responded to her baby shower, I told her mom how sorry I was I had to miss it, especially since I won't see her at the wedding. Her mom told me she definitely planned to come to the wedding and already asked her mom to babysit. But now I keep trying to get a response from my friend, and she is not returning any of my messages. Do I count her or no?
2) FH's cousin keeps going back and forth saying she plans to come...unless this comes up, or that comes up. She said due to financial reasons, she can't book her flight until July 1. Problem is, we need a final headcount by June 27. Should we count her?
TIA!!
1) My friend is pregnant and due two weeks before my wedding. I assumed she wouldn't come, but when I responded to her baby shower, I told her mom how sorry I was I had to miss it, especially since I won't see her at the wedding. Her mom told me she definitely planned to come to the wedding and already asked her mom to babysit. But now I keep trying to get a response from my friend, and she is not returning any of my messages. Do I count her or no?
2) FH's cousin keeps going back and forth saying she plans to come...unless this comes up, or that comes up. She said due to financial reasons, she can't book her flight until July 1. Problem is, we need a final headcount by June 27. Should we count her?
TIA!!
