RSVPs

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 11:45 AM

RSVPs

I'm starting to received them and so far all of them are declines.... We're having a small wedding and I'm afraid there won't be anyone there

How can some people make it to the church but not the reception???

10102009Bride Posted: Aug 14, 2009 11:51 AM

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oh... sorry to hear that.
i know it hurts a lot in a small wedding... we invited 70 only 55 are comming
when is your RSVP date?

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:15 PM

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September 1st

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:17 PM

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We invited 75 as well. I'm just afraid that it would look too empty and with not enough people dancing.. What was your # guaranteed?

BunnyBride Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:20 PM

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We invited about 65 people and our grand total was 48. It was a fantastic wedding (my guests response, not mine ) and it was wonderful to actually be able to spend time with every single one of our friends and family members. Your wedding will be gorgeous. Try not to worry

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:29 PM

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Thank you for sharing. I'm glad everything worked out.

gina409 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:31 PM

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im so sorry but dont forget all u need is you and fh to have a gorgeou wedding....you are going to have plenty of people there and u will have a great time dancing all night trust me!!!

elysemichelle Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:34 PM

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keep in mind, most of your nos will come right away because they know they cant go. A lot of people will tell you no immediately in case you have a b list you want to invite, you still have time.

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:52 PM

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Thanks ladies.

StellaStar13 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 12:57 PM

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Posted by BunnyBride

We invited about 65 people and our grand total was 48. It was a fantastic wedding (my guests response, not mine ) and it was wonderful to actually be able to spend time with every single one of our friends and family members. Your wedding will be gorgeous. Try not to worry

I totally agree, you should just stay positive and focus on the fact that those that are there are going to have a wonderful time. Actually you will be a very nice position as a bride, you will probably be able to actually sit back and enjoy everyone one-on-one. Don't you worry it is going to be your perfect day!

LnF0405 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:00 PM

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Posted by BunnyBride

We invited about 65 people and our grand total was 48. It was a fantastic wedding (my guests response, not mine ) and it was wonderful to actually be able to spend time with every single one of our friends and family members. Your wedding will be gorgeous. Try not to worry

Same here.. Actually 52 RSVP yes and we had 50 show.. Still it was a great wedding and we had a lot of fun..
What is your min??

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:03 PM

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50 is my min

10102009Bride Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:29 PM

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75 is my min...
my RH said that they will try to do some extras for the difference.
Stay positive... Everything will be fine.

I love to read about small weddings on http://www.intimateweddings.com/blog/category/real-weddings/

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:42 PM

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My friend had 67 people at her reception and it was one of the best weddings i went to.

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:56 PM

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

My friend had 67 people at her reception and it was one of the best weddings i went to.

Mine looks like it would be 40

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 01:58 PM

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Posted by 10102009Bride

75 is my min...
my RH said that they will try to do some extras for the difference.
Stay positive... Everything will be fine.

I love to read about small weddings on http://www.intimateweddings.com/blog/category/real-weddings/

Thanks!!!!

MrsGRod09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 02:00 PM

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Don't worry date twin i invited 90 and only 44 have said yes so far and my RSVP date is August 31st. The ones that come are the ones that care and you will have a fabulous wedding regardless.

KYBride09 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 02:04 PM

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Posted by GRod2Be

Don't worry date twin i invited 90 and only 44 have said yes so far and my RSVP date is August 31st. The ones that come are the ones that care and you will have a fabulous wedding regardless.

OOhh Thank you date twin!!! I didn't realize how many of us are having small weddings ~75
I don't feel so left out

10102009Bride Posted: Aug 14, 2009 02:14 PM

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you will be surrounded by people who love you and care about you.
Try to concentrate on the BIG picture. It's not about the number of guest or flowers or any other thing... It's about you and your FH and the love you have for eachother.

10/10 is a such cool date! date twin!

LnF0405 Posted: Aug 14, 2009 02:33 PM

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Posted by 10102009Bride

75 is my min...
my RH said that they will try to do some extras for the difference.
Stay positive... Everything will be fine.

I love to read about small weddings on http://www.intimateweddings.com/blog/category/real-weddings/

I love this site thanks