RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

Sugaplum111905 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 11:48 AM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

As I wait for them to arrive... I am FREAKINGGGGGG out that each guest will say YES!!! I am trying to keep it together for FH as I know he is nervous too... What will we do??? Anyone else feel this way???

Pinkisles Posted: Aug 07, 2013 11:54 AM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

The no's take longer to come in, don't worry.

Sugaplum111905 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 12:01 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

Thanks!!! All I have seen are Yes's so far and its pushing me over the edge. In a week or so I'll have a bunch of No's and then think no one is coming. :)

Mindyepo Posted: Aug 07, 2013 12:04 PM

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Posted by Sugaplum111905

Thanks!!! All I have seen are Yes's so far and its pushing me over the edge. In a week or so I'll have a bunch of No's and then think no one is coming. :)

I'm with you!!!! I haven't even sent out my invites yet and one week I'm freaking I won't make my minimum and the next week I think we'll be like 20 people over my minimum and won't be able to pay for them!!

This stress is worse than any other wedding stress I've had (so far anyway!)

MrsB92713 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 12:22 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

Just wait until the days that none come and you stress over that! LOL. My current stress is that our RSVP date is in 9 days and we still have 63 hanging out. So now I'm stressing that people won't respond at all!

sillylily Posted: Aug 07, 2013 12:47 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

OMG!! I got all of responses and only 9 of them were NO's! To be honest I counted on at least 25 no's. WOW. This is a lot more expensive than I thought!

absolutemocha Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:18 PM

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hahah i was freaking out too that i keep getting all these yes responses.. and then nothing came for a whole week and i swore the USPS lost our address or forgot to delivery our mail or went bankrupt or something. RSVP stress is by far the worst wedding stress to date!

Roxannebowen79 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:34 PM

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Posted by Mindyepo

Posted by Sugaplum111905

Thanks!!! All I have seen are Yes's so far and its pushing me over the edge. In a week or so I'll have a bunch of No's and then think no one is coming. :)

I'm with you!!!! I haven't even sent out my invites yet and one week I'm freaking I won't make my minimum and the next week I think we'll be like 20 people over my minimum and won't be able to pay for them!!

This stress is worse than any other wedding stress I've had (so far anyway!)

Me too!!!!!!

J9JP2013 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:41 PM

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I got back about 35 RSVP's so far and they were all YES.

I mean...we invited the number we could afford to pay for but there are a few here and there that you wouldn't mind a NO from.

lauren1802 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:41 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

yes totally we got alllll these yes's... but then we started getting people without dates and a couple no's.
about 70 invites still out there.... 8 days to go...

Sugaplum111905 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:53 PM

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Posted by J9JP2013

I got back about 35 RSVP's so far and they were all YES.

I mean...we invited the number we could afford to pay for but there are a few here and there that you wouldn't mind a NO from.

I wouldn't mind a few Nos. My brother is getting married next week and he had 240 invites, 150 said yes... I think the guests that said NO to him are coming to mine. This is by far the most stressful part of wedding planning. I thought everything else was a breeze.

jassy119 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 01:55 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

Yes, this RSVP crap is so annoying! My RSVP date was yesterday and I am still missing a bunch. People are just ridiculous! So frustrating! This is part of the reason why I sent out my invites so early because I knew I'd have to track ppl down! My own father and brother haven't sent in their RSVP SMH It's like yea dad and bro, I know you'll be there but can you send in the freakin card!!

J9JP2013 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 02:59 PM

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Posted by Sugaplum111905

Posted by J9JP2013

I got back about 35 RSVP's so far and they were all YES.

I mean...we invited the number we could afford to pay for but there are a few here and there that you wouldn't mind a NO from.

I wouldn't mind a few Nos. My brother is getting married next week and he had 240 invites, 150 said yes... I think the guests that said NO to him are coming to mine. This is by far the most stressful part of wedding planning. I thought everything else was a breeze.

FH's brother is getting married next week and the 'Nos' that they are getting, we were expecting as well.
I hope I'm not wrong.

MarryTheNight24 Posted: Aug 07, 2013 04:40 PM

RSVPS.... FREAKING OUT!!!

Speaking of RSVPs. My rsvp date isn't until next Wednesday, but I've gotten 2 changed RSVPs in the past week. W.T.F! FH just texted me that his dad's friend now can't come. I don't even know him, so I don't care but come onnnn.