Run in with FMIL...kind of long**I HAVE AN UPDATE***
Ok girls so FMIL and I had our first major run in last night at a Church dinner no less. So let me give you some background:
Last Thursday FMIL called our house at 6:10 in the morning. That is right folks 6:10AM!! Now FH was up getting ready for work but I get to sleep till 7 since I don't need to be at work till 8:30. So I sent her a text message, just asking that she not call the house that early unless it is an emergency and that if she needs FH before he goes to work, to please call his cell and not our house.
So now fast forward to last night. We are sitting in Church eating dinner and she says to me with tons of attitude 'Well Princess are you still angry with me' I am like what are you talking about (assuming it couldn't have been about the text since that was A WEEK AGO! So she says 'Well I got your lovely lil text and frankly I was angry with you over that'. So my response is well I am sorry you were angry. It wasn't meant to be nasty, just a request to please not do that again unless it is an emergency. I explained that we leave the hand set to our portable home phone on the night stand in case of emergency and so it was ringing in my ear, while FH was in the kitchen fixing his lunch for work. He had to run into the bedroom to grab the phone and he also expressed to her how inappropriate it was that she called that early in the morning.
So she called to ask FH a BANKING QUESTION. AT 6AM!! Ok first off the bank doesn't even open till 8:30 and they are open till 4pm so why again would you feel the need to call at such an ungodly hour?!?!??! At this point I am getting ticked off cuz I feel she is being really unnecessarily snotty and she is choosing to do this in front of everyone at church.
So in a nut shell my question is how can she possibly be angry at me?!?! I have thought about it a lil and if the situation were reverse and my Mom had done this (Which she would never do cuz she has some regard and respect for others unlike FMIL), I would have told my Mom that it was too early and to not call again that early. But if FH had told my Mom that my Mom probably would have been angry with him as well. So my general feeling is I probably should have just let it be something between FH and his mom, but I was irritated and I was the one woken up. Anyway this is my rant and she really aggravated me! LOL![]()
Ok end of story...thanks for listening/ready!![]()
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UPDATE: So FH talked to FMIL yesterday afternoon and totally stood up for me and FMIL went on to explain that made my text made her cry all day! ***??? All I said was in the future, can you please...GEEZ LOUISE! I thought I was supposed to be the one causing drama! Good Lord!!! Anyways so last night she called to apologize and apparently FH didn't tell her to do that. So that was nice. I told her that I think the WHOLE situation has gotten blown way out of proportion and now that we have both said our apologies we can just get past it. WOW seriously, some people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![]()
Last Thursday FMIL called our house at 6:10 in the morning. That is right folks 6:10AM!! Now FH was up getting ready for work but I get to sleep till 7 since I don't need to be at work till 8:30. So I sent her a text message, just asking that she not call the house that early unless it is an emergency and that if she needs FH before he goes to work, to please call his cell and not our house.
So now fast forward to last night. We are sitting in Church eating dinner and she says to me with tons of attitude 'Well Princess are you still angry with me' I am like what are you talking about (assuming it couldn't have been about the text since that was A WEEK AGO! So she says 'Well I got your lovely lil text and frankly I was angry with you over that'. So my response is well I am sorry you were angry. It wasn't meant to be nasty, just a request to please not do that again unless it is an emergency. I explained that we leave the hand set to our portable home phone on the night stand in case of emergency and so it was ringing in my ear, while FH was in the kitchen fixing his lunch for work. He had to run into the bedroom to grab the phone and he also expressed to her how inappropriate it was that she called that early in the morning.
So she called to ask FH a BANKING QUESTION. AT 6AM!! Ok first off the bank doesn't even open till 8:30 and they are open till 4pm so why again would you feel the need to call at such an ungodly hour?!?!??! At this point I am getting ticked off cuz I feel she is being really unnecessarily snotty and she is choosing to do this in front of everyone at church.
So in a nut shell my question is how can she possibly be angry at me?!?! I have thought about it a lil and if the situation were reverse and my Mom had done this (Which she would never do cuz she has some regard and respect for others unlike FMIL), I would have told my Mom that it was too early and to not call again that early. But if FH had told my Mom that my Mom probably would have been angry with him as well. So my general feeling is I probably should have just let it be something between FH and his mom, but I was irritated and I was the one woken up. Anyway this is my rant and she really aggravated me! LOL
Ok end of story...thanks for listening/ready!
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UPDATE: So FH talked to FMIL yesterday afternoon and totally stood up for me and FMIL went on to explain that made my text made her cry all day! ***??? All I said was in the future, can you please...GEEZ LOUISE! I thought I was supposed to be the one causing drama! Good Lord!!! Anyways so last night she called to apologize and apparently FH didn't tell her to do that. So that was nice. I told her that I think the WHOLE situation has gotten blown way out of proportion and now that we have both said our apologies we can just get past it. WOW seriously, some people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
