Sad

So as I've mentioned FH lives in Florida. Now that the holidays are coming around and the wedding planning is in full swing I miss him more than anything!!!!

We originally planned on him moving up here around this time and doing the bulk of the planning together. We ran into some unexpected expenses and now we've pushed the move date to mid-Feb.

Most of the work will be done by then!!!

I know it's not his fault and I don't want to take it out on him, but this planning is supposed to create a lot of wonderful memories for us. Instead it has become me frustrated all the time and sad about not having him here.

How can I involve him more in the wedding planning?

Many brides have their FH right here in NY and don't get any help whatsoever frm them, so please try not to upset yourself over that.

I can sympathize with missing him around the holidays - but just think of how special his coming to New York will be when he gets here!!!

Im sorry that he is so far away and cant hlep you!
Im sure that once he is here he will be able to help you more

It is difficult to cope because we do want to involve FH in all the planning, but other than sending him pics and having him on the phone there is nothing you can do. The time for him to move back will be here before you know it.

In the interim, try keeping busy doing stuff. Between Feb and Sept you will do a lot of planning stuff together.

I hope so.....