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dazies1011 Posted: Jul 30, 2009 06:44 PM

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things are getting harder and harder with the wedding 4 weeks away!!!!!!! Bridemaids issues and now some people arent able to make it to the wedding that said they were. Im ready to skip the wedding and get on the next palne to Jamaica and stay til we have to come back from the HM.

Gracie821 Posted: Jul 30, 2009 06:47 PM

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I feel the same way Feel better

angels914 Posted: Jul 30, 2009 07:41 PM

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I feel the same way !!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are not meeting our minimum at the RH ... and they wont even give us anything in place for the missing people... which really stinks !!!!! So we will be out over 1000 people..... I am tired of stressing at this point !!!!!!!!!

Jennmolloy Posted: Jul 30, 2009 08:08 PM

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Sorry you feel sad and stressed.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jul 30, 2009 08:14 PM

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Oh no!!!! I'm so sorry Here's tons of hugs for you Everything will work out, don't worry!

NYMetsBride Posted: Jul 30, 2009 08:14 PM

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Wow, Im sorry your going thru this. Dont worry, it will be over before you know it and you will be enjoying your HM with Ant.

Julia0927 Posted: Jul 30, 2009 08:52 PM

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I feel the same way.

FutureMrsG Posted: Jul 30, 2009 11:35 PM

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I was feeling the same way last week but this week I am feeling much better. I realized that I am doing this once and I want these last few weeks leading up to the wedding to be exciting not stressful. I am doing my best and what ever happens, happens...try to relax.

flairforfashion Posted: Jul 30, 2009 11:54 PM

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Christine, I am SO sorry.

Please don't be sad. Just remember, it's about you and your hubby to be.

I know it's easier said than done. But you really are going to have a beautiful day despite the idiots that are not there.

Cheer up girly!

debzy Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:25 AM

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I feel the same way, too. I think it's normal. We just have so many stresses right now. FH and I just keep reminding ourselves that we need to try to enjoy this b/c everything will work out in the end.

ddnsp618 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:28 AM

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Posted by angels914

I feel the same way !!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are not meeting our minimum at the RH ... and they wont even give us anything in place for the missing people... which really stinks !!!!! So we will be out over 1000 people..... I am tired of stressing at this point !!!!!!!!!

do you need me to come??? bc i will.

DanielleAndMichael Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:47 AM

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Nitania13 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:53 AM

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I so hear you! I think it's just normal to have drama in a wedding. I hear about it all the time. We have people who are causing drama too. And my MOH just got engaged and from what I understand she's experiencing her own drama as well. I think it's just a normal part of weddings. Some ppl just don't know how to be happy for others if they don't have something themselves. Sorry to hear about this though!

gina409 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 12:12 PM

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im so sorry..just remember all the hard work you put into this and no matter what u guys are going to have a amazing wedding!!!!!

dazies1011 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:44 PM

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Thanks soooo much girls. Hopefully things will look up with the BMs by next week. FH is driving me crazy and that wont change .
Our minimum wont be made. We had it but, people canceled on us already so we dont know what we are going to do
I just pray my dad is watching over me.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:48 PM

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Don't wish it away Christine! It's such an exciting time...try to breathe through the drama and be excited for your special day ! I wish we could do it all over again!

GT143EA Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:48 PM

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Posted by dazies1011

Thanks soooo much girls. Hopefully things will look up with the BMs by next week. FH is driving me crazy and that wont change .
Our minimum wont be made. We had it but, people canceled on us already so we dont know what we are going to do
I just pray my dad is watching over me.

Awww Chris. Try not to stress hun. Everything will work out and your wedding will be amazing. Try to enjoy these last few weeks. It goes by so quickly.

AllisonBrian Posted: Jul 31, 2009 10:50 PM

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DnJ0809 Posted: Jul 31, 2009 11:24 PM

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I'm another victim of not meeting the minimum for the RH. We invited over 200 ppl, had to guarantee 150, and if we have 120-125 we'll be lucky. We were taken care of by the RH but the last few no's we got, when I opened the rsvp's, I cried and threw them across the room.