FH and my mom are not getting along.....it's always over the same issue too (how FH deals with our dog).....now my mom is upset and i'm upset at FH b/c I happen to agree with my mom on this one. I dont know what to do. FH is staying at my house for the next 3 weeks since he's not from LI...the tension is high and i'm so sad. my mom is jumping to conclusions saying that if he is this way with our dog he is going to be bad with our kids and blah blah. FH also blows up when he's upset and my mom feels he disrespected her. Meanwhile I see FH always trying to help out my mom but all she sees is the bad things. She says shes worried for me and that I'm immature. Meanwhile I'm caught in the middle of them both. My shower is in 2 weeks and i'm the furthest thing from happy. to top it off my mom feels like shes doing so much (and she is) b/c FH's fam is coming in a week and a half from PR and staying with us.
sorry for the long vent girls...i just dont know what to do.
harts2976
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What does he do with your dog?
ElovesJ117
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I agree...what is he doing to the dog? But regardless I would speak to FH and tell him that it upsets your mom. Your FH really shouldn't blow up at your mom it is kinda disrespectful and I could see my mom getting upset also.
Be happy! Your shower is in 2 weeks!!! Your marrying the love of your life. Your mom and FH will be fine and if not they should both be civil with eachother bc they love you. This was the best advice I was ever given when my FMIL wasn't very fond of me....they don't have to love you but they do have to respect you. That's all you can really ask from them....to play nice and be respectful!
Panamasweet
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Posted by harts2976
What does he do with your dog?
I was wondering the same thing. What does he do that is so bad that it gets your mom so upset?
JessNicole7EM
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Posted by ElovesJ117
what is he doing to the dog? But regardless I would speak to FH and tell him that it upsets your mom. Your FH really shouldn't blow up at your mom it is kinda disrespectful and I could see my mom getting upset also.
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I agree with this too. no matter what he should never blow up at your mom.
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Posted by JessNicole7EM
Posted by ElovesJ117
what is he doing to the dog? But regardless I would speak to FH and tell him that it upsets your mom. Your FH really shouldn't blow up at your mom it is kinda disrespectful and I could see my mom getting upset also.
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I agree with this too. no matter what he should never blow up at your mom.
ITA.
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I think he is very lucky that it was not my mother cause she would've clocked him if he blew up at her. I wish I was exaggerating. You need to tell him he cannot under any circumstances disrespect your mother, even if she's wrong. You wait till it cools off then speak calmly. All three of you should sit down and talk and air everything out. What is he doing to the dog that she gets upset???
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I'm sorry hun I know it's stressful. My FH and Mom butt heads sometimes too.
You know we are always here when you need to vent.
When emotions run high, people act irrationally. I'm sure this is a stressful time for your FH and your Mom, but that's no reason for your FH to blow up or for your Mom to call you immature and doubt your and your FH's future together. I'm sure neither of them really meant anything by it.
