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Sad Day UPDATE

azailia Posted:

Sad Day UPDATE

I am so upset.


This stuff with Ashley is hitting me....

Someone who I 'thought' was my friend isn't coming to my wedding and didn't say why. I heard she booked a trip the night b4. Then she has the nerve to ask me for money for someone else's shower that SHE is hosting!!!!!

I have decided to cancel my bachlorette party because my MOH is incompetent. She sent out the invites, with the wrong date, without my name. Then, never told anyone that we were going to get a limo until today!!! The party was for 6/13!!!

How can you expect people to come up with the money in a week????
So needless to say, people started backing out.

I am so disgusted and disappointed. I have been crying all afternoon.

I just can't take it anymore.

UPDATE:

There was alot of screaming, fighting and crying. Totally not what I need right now. Fh and I decided to go away that weekend. I CAN'T wait to get away from here and everyone!!! It will be really great, because in the end he is all that matters. He has been so great through all of this. I love him soo much.

I sent out an email to the girls that were coming and told them that it is canceled. I have decided that after the wedding I will plan my own bachlorette party. I also made it clear that there will be a limo and to please continue to save money.

Thanks again for all the warm wishes. I feel like I have a black cloud over me lately...

However good news... there is 'talk' that ashley might be discharged thursday!!! She will still be on dialysis but she will be home!!!!
MoochsWifey Posted:

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I'm so sorry, I hope things start looking up for you soon!
ttdiff11 Posted:

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im reallly sorry!!!!!!!

MrsGRod09 Posted:

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I'm so sorry all of this is happening to you. Maybe you can go out with some select friends and have a mini bachelorette party.Once again so sorry
xosweetiexo Posted:

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Oh wow Im so sorry
FutureMrsM Posted:

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coldasice217 Posted:

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I'm so sorry you're going through all of this right now. I certainly know that when it rains, it pours, and how overwhelming it can be.

las1 Posted:

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I am sorry. You should try to go to dinner and then go out with the rest of your bridal party and some of your close friends.

cnr1408 Posted:

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I'm really sorry
springsandra Posted:

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Oh, Dana, I'm so sorry you are going through all of this!!!!

Now I just want to take you out and celebrate with you so you can be happy and enjoy yourself!

You are going through so much right now and all you deserve is happiness!!!

Life is full of so many ups and downs, and without the strife, we would not be able to appreciate and enjoy the amazing things such as the love we have with our FHs. I wish you all the best and send all things positive -- love and prayers -- your way.

Please let me know if there's anything I can do or any way I can help. ::HUGS!!::
MrsJuneB2B Posted:

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aww geez. i'm so sorry maybe you can just go out with a just a few friends and celebrate. my gosh i feel so bad. things will perk up. i'm sorry though!
grrulz Posted:

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I am sooo sorry!! please hang in thereeeeee
mmm117 Posted:

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Like everyone says, a wedding shows who your true friends are. Just remember that your wedding day is all about you and your FH. Don't let anyone else get your down b/c soon you'll be marrying the love of love life!!!

elysemichelle Posted:

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im so sorry hun!!! i know exactly what you are going through!!!! keep ur head up, things will get better!!!!

donnasmom09 Posted:

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Hugs and prayers for you, Dana!!!!! Much Love, Mary MOB
stargazerlily Posted:

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I'm so sorry...i will make an angry face for you
FutureMrsG Posted:

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I am so sorry that you are having a bad day! I can sympathize with the stress you and your family must be going through with your cousin's recent surgery. Try to focus on the positive things- Ashley is getting stronger every day and she has the love and support of her family and friends to help her through this difficult time.
As for the wedding stuff try to keep it in perspective. Maybe you can plan a small b-party with some of your close friends and BP. One of the best b-parties I ever went to was only three girls and the bride we had a great time.

lauraandrob2009 Posted:

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Oh no People can be so disappointing. What I've been doing is try to focus on the people who are making the efforts (calling me to ask how things are, traveling from really far to be there) instead of on those who are disappointing me and it has helped. I hope you feel better soon.
Jess and Jon Posted:

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I am so sorry!!

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