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Same MOH dress? Help please

Utterhappiness Posted:

Same MOH dress? Help please

I need your opinions please

I love the bridesmaid dress that I chose and so does my MOH. I was thinking that i would keep the same dress for my MOH as my bridesmaids. Is this ok? Do I need to have herw ear a different dress, or is it ok to just keep the same dress? I will post a picture of the dress below. I tried to work with the idea of changing her dress up a little bit but I am not sure how.

Ok girls, creativity please, if you think I shoudl change it up, what can I do? I was thinking attaching a sparkly broach or something on wherethe lower portion is clasped with that bow? But I feel like it will be covered by the bow itself... hmm Im stuck PLease help!
Summertimegal424 Posted:

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u can give our MOH different flowers

Sweets14 Posted:

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I want all my bm and moh in the same dress and same color. MOH will have bigger/different flowers!!!!!

ace730 Posted:

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I am doing all the girls in the same dresses but my Maid and Matron on Honor will be wearing a different color from the other girls and they will also have different flowers.

Utterhappiness Posted:

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Ok DEF different flowers! Good call on that... but should I alter the dress in anyway? Or is it cool to leave it the same?

LIMusicTeacher Posted:

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give your moh noticeably different jewelry. maybe a regular chain necklace for the bm's and a Y necklace or some other drop necklace for moh.

Kricket212 Posted:

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IMO MoH is a special honor & should be treated as such...different flowers maybe broach or something as you suggested. Different jewlery.

BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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I think its fine.... I was MOH in my MOH's wedding and I had the same dress as the BMs but I had a different color sash. You could do different flowers? Or maybe a broach?

p.s.- I love that dress!
lanamanitta Posted:

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They can definitely all wear the same!! I agree with the poster who suggested different flowers . . . give her a larger bo-k, or different, at least, from the other girls. The shop might also be able to add a little 'something' to the dress, like a fall off the back, etc. to make her dress just slightly different.

You could add stones to her bow, easily, with a bedazzler, cheap and quick, to 'bling it up a bit.' But I wouldn't go crazy, the dress is great.

The other option is to give her different jewelry . . . a dramatic necklace, while the other girls wear a solitaire, for example.
DINAAMATUCCIO Posted:

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yes definitely different flowers !... i do love the dress i wanted it for my bridesmaids however i tried it on and so did one of my bridesmaids and if you aren't in the best figure it shows everything... i don't consider myself fat at all but my stomach is a little flabby so I just suggest everyone in your bridal party trying the dress on and making sure they all seem to be comfortable in the dress... i hope you don't take this post the wrong way i am just giving you my own opinion from my own experience.

branflake1229 Posted:

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I think a broach would look pretty, if it's something big enough that isn't covered by the bow. Or as someone else suggested a Y-shaped necklace would look really pretty with that dress. What about if she wears a tiara or something to make her stand out more?

Utterhappiness Posted:

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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO

yes definitely different flowers !... i do love the dress i wanted it for my bridesmaids however i tried it on and so did one of my bridesmaids and if you aren't in the best figure it shows everything... i don't consider myself fat at all but my stomach is a little flabby so I just suggest everyone in your bridal party trying the dress on and making sure they all seem to be comfortable in the dress... i hope you don't take this post the wrong way i am just giving you my own opinion from my own experience.



I 100% appreciate your advice don t worry.... Im not offended, I understand what you mean and like I said, its really appreciated! I found something different though, all my girls tried it on and I found the dress to be pretty forgiving. 1 of the girls was worried how it would fall on her, but thankfully it all worked out phew.. bc i wasgaga over the dress. Thank you so much for the advice again
Utterhappiness Posted:

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Posted by BarbieGrl10

I think its fine.... I was MOH in my MOH's wedding and I had the same dress as the BMs but I had a different color sash. You could do different flowers? Or maybe a broach?

p.s.- I love that dress!



Thank you darling
Mrs B to Be Posted:

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i am making no distinguishment between my MOH and my other 3 BMs they each have a different dress, all black, all getting the same flowers, and for jewelry they will each have something different that goes with their particular dress.....she knows shes the MOH everyone else really doesnt (meaning guests) really dont care....it just about what you want to do!

if you want to make her different is the same dress offered in another color you like???
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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I am dealing with this too....My mom wants my MOH's (my 2 sisters) in different dresses...It's hard to coordinate
evewedsjc Posted:

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my girls are all wearing the same dress...just give her different flowers...

ElleTom Posted:

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THAT IS FINE. MINE IS THE SAME ALSO. YOU CAN DO DIFFERENT BOUQUET, JEWLERY TO DISTINGUISH.

JamieAnt06202009 Posted:

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Love the dress! I am doing the same thing. My sister is my MOH and she is going to have a broach and her bouquet will be bigger than the others.

MEMEJOR Posted:

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all my girls are wearing the same dresses... i am doing different flowers

spark Posted:

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I was planning on having my MOH wear the same color but different silhouette of the dress. That way everyone looks uniform but she stands. The different bouquet is also a great idea. I think I'll do that too!

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