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Save the date letters...???
aleash13 Posted: Apr 21, 2001 10:48 PM+
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Save the date letters...???

I got engaged in July of 2000 and will be getting married in July of 2002. We announced our engagement verbally in July of 2000. Should I send out save the date letters this summer so that people will remember the date? What did you girls do?
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fortzando Posted: Apr 21, 2001 10:54 PM+
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Save the date letters...???

I sent out a save-the-date, only because our wedding is on a holiday weekend (memorial day)....figured our guests would appreciate advance notice on such a popular 'get-away' weekend. Generally I don't think they are necessary unless its a special weekend.
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Heather Posted: Apr 22, 2001 12:23 AM+
Heather MEMBER SINCE: 4/01 TOTAL POSTS : 632 WEDDING DATE: Aug 02, 2002
Posted: Apr 22, 2001 12:23 AM bride-minus.png

Save the date letters...???

I think these 'save the date' cards/letters have become very popular lately.Personally, I think people are only using them if their wedding is on a holiday weekend, or during the summer. The reason for the advance notice is to allow proper time for your guests to plan.It is usually during these long weekends/summer that most of your guests will be planning a vacation of their own, or the high demand for hotels requires people to make reservations months ahead of time. For example I am in a friend's wedding in RI this July, and we made our reservations two months ago! I think it is a great to include a list of hotels and local attractions for your guests. My friend also included a picture of her and her fiance, along with a schedule of events for the bridal party. This was a great way to fill us in on the who, what, and when. I hope this helps!
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Karen H Posted: Apr 22, 2001 10:05 AM+
Karen H MEMBER SINCE: 2/01 TOTAL POSTS : 1890 WEDDING DATE: Apr 28, 2001
Posted: Apr 22, 2001 10:05 AM bride-minus.png

Save the date letters...???

We had over 40% of the guest list coming from out of town, so we sent a save the date letter out about 6 months in advance of our April wedding. My thinking was to send them before people planned their annual vacations - some companies require you to submit your vacation plans early in the year, and some people may be planning in advance. I think you said July of 2002, didn't you? For that, you may want to just include a little note or card with Holiday cards you send this December, or send something with more detail, ie: hotels, in January.
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Tina Posted: Apr 22, 2001 04:32 PM+
Tina MEMBER SINCE: 2/01 TOTAL POSTS : 165 WEDDING DATE: Nov 03, 2001
Posted: Apr 22, 2001 04:32 PM bride-minus.png

Save the date letters...???

My Fi's parents had a huge engagement party for us with over 70 people...all of which will be coming to the wedding so most everyone knew the date already. I think it is really important to let your far-away guests know. You can even call them if you don't have that many people coming from far away.
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Stef28 Posted: Apr 23, 2001 09:28 AM+
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Posted: Apr 23, 2001 09:28 AM bride-minus.png

Save the date letters...???

I sent Save the Date notes out just recenlty (5-6) months before wedding. I only sent them to family members that I haven't spoken to in awhile. Also I have two other cousins getting married between now and my wedidng so I wanted them to not forget about me :-) I wouldn't send them out until a couple of months ahead of time, otherwise people will just forget again.
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