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Save the Date Question
Jott1015
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 06:53 AM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 06:53 AM
Save the Date Question
As we are having a winter wedding, I have set up to take some 'winter' themed e-pics later this month. I was planning on using the pictures in the Save the dates. My question is - if I understand correct, the STD's are generally sent out 6-8 months before the wedding, which would be right in the middle of summer. Would it be weird to send a winter themed save the date in the middle of summer? IDK how this works. Maybe I am over thinking it. Did any other ladies do a specific season 'theme' surrounding your wedding month and send out the STD's in the opposite month? I guess I feel like its weird to get an invite in the middle of July with snowflakes on it or a picture of people in scarves and gloves LOL.What do you ladies think??
cupcakegal930
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:09 AM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:09 AM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
I don't think it's weird at all. Just a thought though, we sent ours out a year in advance because our wedding is right after Christmas, yours is right after the holidays as well so you might want to give people more notice than 6 months in case people are planning holiday vacations and things.
dawnbon26
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:24 AM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:24 AM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
Not weird, but since you're a holiday time wedding I would send them out Jan. 2014. Watermill will be beautiful in Jan.
katielynn
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:45 AM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 07:45 AM
Re: Save the Date Question
Posted by dawnbon26
Not weird, but since you're a holiday time wedding I would send them out Jan. 2014. Watermill will be beautiful in Jan.
This. Being so close to the holidays I wouldn't wait the standard '6-8 months'. I'm sending mine out within the next week or so (they should be at my house tonight!!)
I wanted to make sure my OOT (and out of country) guests have PLENTY of time to plan since we're only 12 days before Christmas. Thats when a lot of holiday travels are happening... same for you wedding date!
I also wanted to beat the holiday card madness!
Jott1015
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 05:16 PM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 05:16 PM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
Did not even think of that... thank you so much everyone I will be sending them out Jam or Feb of next year :)
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Nov 05, 2013 06:35 PM+

Posted: Nov 05, 2013 06:35 PM
Re: Save the Date Question
I am in same boat. I have a fall themed save the date so I want to get it out by thanksgiving because I don't want people getting leaves and pumpkins in the spring/summer lol. I know it's early but at least now it's less than a year away.
smm1129
Posted: Nov 06, 2013 09:32 AM+

Posted: Nov 06, 2013 09:32 AM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
I am having a winter wedding, with winter themed engagement pics being taken this December. As my date may be a popular one, along with holiday parties, vacations and such, my goal is to send STDs out by February. It will also still be Winter when people get them.I think our time of year allows a little rule bending, as more people go on vacation during this time, and have holidays and other obligations, so if you sent them out earlier (even march/april) it would still fit the time of year, and will also give people plenty of notice. =)
LeBronsBride2015
Posted: Nov 06, 2013 12:39 PM+

Posted: Nov 06, 2013 12:39 PM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
I'm thinking of sending mine out early as well. I want a 4th of July weekend wedding and I think it might be better to give people plenty of notice. So hopefully by August/September they'll be out.
MarryTheNight24
Posted: Nov 06, 2013 01:50 PM+

Posted: Nov 06, 2013 01:50 PM
Save the Date Question - Long Island Weddings
The sooner the better IMO. I sent mine out 13 months before. I was tired of everyone asking when the date was.Welcome New Vendors
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