Save the Dates advice

MrsCtoB Posted: Jun 01, 2009 02:50 PM

Save the Dates advice

Do you think it's rude to not invite someone to your wedding that you sent a save the date to, if you sent it and then never heard from them again?

I sent them out in Feb. and despite my numerous attempts to get in touch, nothing. I'm sending my envelopes to the calligrapher tomorrow and I just dont know what to do.

gina409 Posted: Jun 01, 2009 02:54 PM

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honestly..yes

sorry but if it were me i would send one..i mean u told them to save the date

now if this is a person who u never ever plan on seeing again and u dont care if u get a emial saying where was my invite then go for it

MrsCM Posted: Jun 01, 2009 02:56 PM

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I'd say yes because you said save the date except if they aren't returning your calls I'd bump them to the B list. You did say numerous attempts.

JennyAPH Posted: Jun 01, 2009 02:58 PM

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This happened to FH and I. We sent out STD's and didnt hear from one of his friends for a while.. we heard through a mutual friend he moved so we tried everything to get in touch with him and get his new address and of course NOTHING.. Ended up emailing him and telling him he wasnt recieving a wedding invite and if he decided he wanted to actually call us back with his address we would send it then. OH WELL.

Cacarina Posted: Jun 01, 2009 03:00 PM

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I have a friend that I sent a Save the Date to, but I haven't really spoken to her in a really long time. I regret sending her the STD. I am not inviting her to the bachelorette party. I will send an invite, because that is the right thing to do, but I am hoping she will decline.

PROBM Posted: Jun 01, 2009 03:19 PM

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Posted by Cacarina

I have a friend that I sent a Save the Date to, but I haven't really spoken to her in a really long time. I regret sending her the STD. I am not inviting her to the bachelorette party. I will send an invite, because that is the right thing to do, but I am hoping she will decline.

same here!!!

littlepixie12 Posted: Jun 01, 2009 03:22 PM

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Posted by Cacarina

I have a friend that I sent a Save the Date to, but I haven't really spoken to her in a really long time. I regret sending her the STD. I am not inviting her to the bachelorette party. I will send an invite, because that is the right thing to do, but I am hoping she will decline.

I have to agree with this... if not put them on the B list