I always thought that the bride and groom sat with their wedding party in one table with bride and room in the middle. But then someone said to me that the bride and groom sit with their families combind and the bridal party sits together with their dates.
We both don't want to sit with our families! Sorry but they all drive us nuts! Is is just possible we could find a way to just sit with the bridal party, the people choose to be there, not the ones we were forced to invite?
Love_my_Freddybear
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Why can't you jsut sit alone???
I'm sitting at a table for two with me and my FH!!
EmberLynn
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We rather sit with our friends. My FH likes to be with a group of people at parties. We gotta figure this out. thanks though.
cjb88
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i have been to weddings where there was a sweatheart table (just the bride and groom) and then others where there was a dias with the entire bridal party... but i have never seen one where the bride and groom sat with their families... and i have been to A LOT of weddings (i used to work at a catering hall)
EmberLynn
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Okay, that is a relief. I've never been to a wedding, so I go by what everyone tells me or the magizines. I heard this from his family and a magizine! Thank you
cjb88
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im also a big believer in your day your way!! who cares what people and those magazines say anyway!
EmberLynn
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Posted by cjb88
im also a big believer in your day your way!! who cares what people and those magazines say anyway!
Thank you
CalJoe0124
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I say do what you andFH want. FH and I are sitting at our own table for 2.
Goldi1021
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My sister and her husband sat with my parents and his parents at her wedding. I just don't see that happening for me. I think the parents would like to sit with their contemporaries (their siblings, friends, out of town guests, etc.). There is plenty of time for togetherness at future gatherings whether they be formal or informal. do what makes you happy.
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Posted by cjb88
i have been to weddings where there was a sweatheart table (just the bride and groom) and then others where there was a dias with the entire bridal party... but i have never seen one where the bride and groom sat with their families... and i have been to A LOT of weddings (i used to work at a catering hall)
my brother chose to sit at the same table as his inlaws and our parents. the bridal party was dispersed around the room among other young tables.. choose whatever you feel is appropriate for you.
july06bride
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we are having a sweatheart table but i have seen it many times where the bride and groom sit with the bridal party, but never where they sit with their families
concon361
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We are doing a sweetheart table..which is just us at the front of the room, that way our bridal party can sit with our guests, and aour families can have thier own tables
stephanief
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Me and my FH are sitting alone with our bridesmaids / groomsmen and their dates in the table right next to us.
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Posted by cjb88
i have been to weddings where there was a sweatheart table (just the bride and groom) and then others where there was a dias with the entire bridal party... but i have never seen one where the bride and groom sat with their families... and i have been to A LOT of weddings (i used to work at a catering hall)
Same here. I've NEVER heard of the bride and groom sitting at one big table with their families.
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I say do what you andFH want. FH and I are sitting at our own table for 2.
same here. it's just us and the BP will sit with there guests and friends.
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If you want to sit with the bridal party I recently went to awedding as a guest and they had the bride and grrom in the middle and then they had the bridal along with there dates at a table next to each of them I thoguth that was a nice idea
Noiva06
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I have seen the bride and groom sit at the sweetheart table, the bridal party table as well as the couple sitting with their families... Honestly, do what you want...it will be your day!
candb
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I've never heard of the bride and groom sitting with their families. The trend use to be to sit with your BP, but now most people sit alone at their own table. If you're doing a medieval wedding, maybe you should research how the weddings were set up. I think they had tables in the shape of a horseshoe and everyone sat around it.
Kerrycec
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I work at the Watermill, and have never seen the bride and groom sit with their families??
kellwolfe
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were sitting alone ...i dont think that they do that anymore everywedding i have been to for the past 3 years the bride and groom sat just the two of them
