Okay so I love my dress and I just ordered it 1 week ago, but everytime I see a dress in one of my magazines or anywhere i'm like did I order the right dress. I also feel like the dress doesn't look that good on line...
Is this happening to anyone else...Is it just because there are several dresses out there.
FutureMrsZ
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Oh yeah. This happened to me. I saw a Lazaro dress on Say Yes to the Dress Atlanta that was jaw dropping. I panicked. I actually called and told them to hold off on ordering (they only did their ordering once a week). I wanted to come in and try more dresses on! My MOH came with me and I tried a similar dress on and it looked terrible. It worked for someone who was really tall - not me!! I tried about 10 more on and when I put my original on I loved it again and my MOH said, 'that's it'. She wasn't there the first time and didn't know that was my dress so it was a nice confirmation.
Some people say just shake it off. I was glad that I went back. I needed the confirmation!! Good Luck.
dCa51899
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omg its so funny that you just posted this bc im seriously sitting here right now going thru old magazines and found this gown that is soooo pretty...
i found my gown and I'm planning on ordering next weekend and now I'm like omgggg should i try this other one on first?!?! maybe my gown isnt the right one
I just think I'm scared to commit, its a huge purchase, so I think thats why you're having second thoughts...mine also looks so ugly on the model so i know what you're saying, but just try to remember how great you feel in your dress
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It's kind of funny when you think about it...When my fiance proposed I was like YES, YES, Yes and with the dress I'm like Yes, Maybe, No, Yes, AHHH! Well it's too late now... It seems like the dress commitment is harder to make than getting married. LOL
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i think it happens to everyone! but when it happened to me, i tried on that other dress (cuz you never want to live with the 'what if' and then tried mine on again.) .... no matter what dress i put on ... i always went back to mine ... thats how i knew it was the 'one'!!!!
FutureMrsZ
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Posted by hiswifey2011
i think it happens to everyone! but when it happened to me, i tried on that other dress (cuz you never want to live with the 'what if' and then tried mine on again.) .... no matter what dress i put on ... i always went back to mine ... thats how i knew it was the 'one'!!!!
Same here. I just didn't want the 'what if'!!
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Yep. I picked a dress and changed my mind. Went somewhere else - tried on more dresses. They gave me my original one to try on and I feel in love with it again.
I'm second guessing it now but when I put it on, I'm sure I'll fall in love with it again.
dCa51899
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Posted by aromando77
It's kind of funny when you think about it...When my fiance proposed I was like YES, YES, Yes and with the dress I'm like Yes, Maybe, No, Yes, AHHH! Well it's too late now... It seems like the dress commitment is harder to make than getting married. LOL
lol ita! I think saying yes to my FH was the easiest part...every other decision has been so hard to make!
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I call my mom daily asking if she thinks my dress is good enough....then she reminds me to look at my picture in it and I calm down...I always seem to question it, but when I tried on anything else, I knew the one I picked was right!
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i always see dresses that i'm like, darn, that would be a nice dress, but i know i bought my dresses for a reason. and i just went for a fitting this w/e and i was like, OMGGGG totally love it!! i think ppl go through it but maybe once you put it on again, you'll remember why you said yes in the first place
mrsg2be11
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STOP LOOKING!! LOL
I blow past those pages in mags. I started driving myself nuts when I looked after I found 'the one'
allornil
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Im so terrified of this happening to me.
But i say if you loved your dress stop guessing. There will always be a new line coming out. You saw it on you and loved it and when you walk out in it everyone else will too
aromando77
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I know I will love it when I try it on again because I tried it on several times already...thanks girls
I wish I could have it at my house and try it on every night.
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Hi
I had the same problem. I went dress shopping and after several stores finally settled on a dress. So I ordered my dress and put half down on a Saturday. So of course the dress would not get called in until Monday.
So sunday morning woke up and was looking at BM dresses online and saw this gorgeous dress and immediately freaked out. I pretty much had a panic attack and realized that I bought the wrong dress. It was a gorgeous dress but it was just not for me.
Monday morning called the bridal store and told them not to order the dress. So I started over and went to other stores and tried on other dresses as well as the dress that I saw online.
Finally went back to the original store where I had put a deposit, saw a dress and fell in love with it, went home and slept on it and then went back and ordered my dream dress. I have had no regrets or anxiety about dress #2. I love it and it makes me feel great.
I would say stop looking at wedding dresses it will only make you feel crazy.
MrsG2011
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Posted by mrsg2be11
STOP LOOKING!! LOL
I blow past those pages in mags. I started driving myself nuts when I looked after I found 'the one'
ditto. no bridal magazines are present at my house. i dont need the stress or aggravation.
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Totally happens to me, I wondered if I felt pressured into getting a dress because the time was running out. Don't get me wrong I love my dress, it's just that sometimes I second guess myself. I do it with my vendors as well.
