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Second guessing...

kcreagh Posted:

Second guessing...

Ok so i know I posted this once before as well but Im second guessing my gown....
Can you please give me your honest opinions-
I dont know how to post pics so heres the link..

http://www.jlmcouture.com/Alvina-Valenta/Bridal/Spring/2008/Style-9815
ttdiff11 Posted:

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its beautiful!! why are u second guessing it???

NikkiR515 Posted:

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I think the dress is gorgeous!

mlcvln129 Posted:

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A lesson that I learned from my 5th grade teacher in 1990-91 (wow, scary) has stuck with me for all of these years:
ALWAYS TRUST YOUR FIRST INSTINCT. This goes for the dress.
JamDancer Posted:

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It's gorgeous. Don't second-guess!!

We all go through that at one time or another I think- it'll pass!
tonysbride09 Posted:

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wow I love it! It is so beautiful. I also posted this week about second guessing my gown. Your gown is more my style. I hate the second guessing but what can I do...I can't return it. The feeling stinks though. I love your gown though if it means anything

kcreagh Posted:

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Posted by mlcvln129

A lesson that I learned from my 5th grade teacher in 1990-91 (wow, scary) has stuck with me for all of these years:
ALWAYS TRUST YOUR FIRST INSTINCT. This goes for the dress.



You're right...I guess i just always pictured myself in more of a ballgown type dress. But i did like it again I went back and tried it on for the second time.

Thanks girls!
BarbieGrl10 Posted:

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I think its beautiful! Why dont you go try it on again and see how you feel?

kbond06 Posted:

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did you take pics of you in it??

kcreagh Posted:

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I have pics of me in it but unfortunately my sis has them on her camera. Also, I need a serious diet and i look like large marge in the dress....8mths to loose some serious weight!!

kbond06 Posted:

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stop! you're def. NOT a large marge!

gina409 Posted:

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Posted by kcreagh

I have pics of me in it but unfortunately my sis has them on her camera. Also, I need a serious diet and i look like large marge in the dress....8mths to loose some serious weight!!



its a beautiful dress!!!!!! and if u r large marge im bruce villanch
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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its a beautiful dress! theres a reason why you chose it in the first place... dont forget that!

GT143EA Posted:

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I love it!!

kcreagh Posted:

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Thanks girls
Kristina2009 Posted:

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i tried on the dress you bought. it is even more stunning in person. seriously - u are going to be so classy and beautiful in it.

kcreagh Posted:

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Posted by Kristina2009

i tried on the dress you bought. it is even more stunning in person. seriously - u are going to be so classy and beautiful in it.



aww so sweet! thank you
MirabellaNYC Posted:

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I think its normal to second guess. I don't think there's just 1 dress out there, I think there are many, you could go tomorrow and find a new 'dream dress'. You just have to trust your instincts and try not to think about it. Your dress is gorgeous! And just be confident in your decision and absolutely positively DO NOT look at any other dresses.
I would also stop looking at pics of your dress online-let yourself be surprised when it comes in! I'm a firm believer that if you look at pics of your dress too much you'll be sick of it by the time you begin your fittings.

Good luck!
exoticbride2B Posted:

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The dress is very classy, I like it alot! What color did you choose? I am in the same boat as you. The dress that I chose is very tight and not poofy or too bridal looking and now I'm 2nd guessing it. I just don't have the funds to buy another dress!!

coldasice217 Posted:

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I think a lot of times girls think that they HAVE to have a big poofy dress in order to be a real bride. I never wanted a big poofy dress, it just wasn't me, and that's not what I bought...then this site brainwashed me that I'm some kind of wedding outcast because my dress doesn't have pickups.

Believe me, you will drive yourself CRAZY if you dwell on it and look at other dresses. I know I did....it took me a few months to decide I liked my dress again, because frankly, I just pulled my head out of my butt and became my own person again, not liweddings zombie.

Your dress is BEAUTIFUL, and if you liked it the first time enough to buy it, and you liked it the second time even though you thought you doubted it...it's your dress. Wear it proud.

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