second guessing

I am actually second guessing my dress. I think i may change to my original choice. I dont want to make the wrong choice but i keep wondering about this other dress.

anyone else ever secnd guess there dress ?

tia

yes after i put $$ down on my first one..lol.
The dress i have now is my second dress which is ordered and i couldnt be happier with it.

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Posted by doreen82

yes after i put $$ down on my first one..lol.
The dress i have now is my second dress which is ordered and i couldnt be happier with it.

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did u get a gut feeling/ I keep feeling like its the wrong one

i kept looking at the one i put a deposit down on...and kept changing my mind about it...there was something i didnt like about it...i wanna say it was b/c it wasnt poofy enough or something...the dress i have now has more detailing..got it at another bridal place and it was cheaper!! but its the same designer and color.

go with your gut. Thankfully i was able to use my deposit i put down as store credit and used it to pay for my BM dress for my friends wedding.

edit for spelling errors

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

i have left a deposit already, and the other dress i like they dont care at that store so i will loose that $$

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Thats a biggie to consider; I know personally I couldn't afford to lose $$$. See, once I ordered my dress I put everything else out of my head so I couldn't second guess or become distracted and change my mind a million times. I stopped looking, stopped wondering about other dresses, and any time I feel a twinge of regret or doubt, I look at my dress and I know its absolutely perfect and I love it and can't wait to wear it.

If all else fails, you could probably sell it but you may not get close to what you paid.

Good luck

I got a second dress for my RH because I felt that my first was too traditional and maybe I should go for tighter, etc...

I LOVE my second dress and was doubting my first

BUT THEN...

I had my second fitting of first and when they bought out my dress, I thought wow why did I get a second?

lol


I think we make ourselves nuts!

I second guessed mine after ordering...but it came in a week ago and I couldn't be happier, I am in love!!!!!! I think for me the second guessing wasn't directly related to my dress because I did/do love it. It was more that i kept seeing all of these other beautiful dresses and kept thinking what if one of these is the one...I feel like there are so many dresses out there that sometimes you cant help but feel like there might be something better out there....for me though my pick was definitely 'the one'! It is natural to have some reservations...your dress is a big deal!!!! If you are really unhappy then I say keep looking...if not maybe its just dress jitters! Good luck! I am sure any dress you end up with will be absolutely perfect!

i just didnt get that ' its the one ' feeling. i dont know if i will never get that or it just really isnt the one

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

i just didnt get that ' its the one ' feeling. i dont know if i will never get that or it just really isnt the one

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This happened to me. I liked the dress I picked, but I felt like I should be saying more than 'Yeah, its pretty and I like it' considering I usually freak out about clothes in general...so I went and tried on like 20-30 more dresses and finally found one that I love...I wouldn't say that I ever got the 'this is THE one' feeling, but I do feel like I love this dress, and its very me and I don't have a feeling of 'I could do better' like I did with my original choice.

I lost a $100 deposit because I bought a sample gown from another store. My advice is to try on other gowns at the store you ordered from first so that you have a chance of transferring the deposit...but if you are not feeling it then DEFINITELY try on others!!!

they say not everyone gets that all warm and fuzzy 'its the one' feeling. But I think you should go and try on the one you ordered again, sometimes you just forget cause we don't get to see it again/try iton for so long. its your day, if you find something else and you have the $$$ to switch you should do what makes you happy!

Every now and then I think about the first two dresses I was torn between and wonder if I should have gone with one of those... but then I remember that I didn't get THE FEELING when I had those on and look at pics of me in my dress and I feel a lot better...

Has it been a while since you have seen/tried on your dress?? Maybe you should pay it a visit!!!

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

Every now and then I think about the first two dresses I was torn between and wonder if I should have gone with one of those... but then I remember that I didn't get THE FEELING when I had those on and look at pics of me in my dress and I feel a lot better...

Has it been a while since you have seen/tried on your dress?? Maybe you should pay it a visit!!!

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i ordered it 12/8 so it hasent been that long at all.

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

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Posted by GinaRandy2010

Every now and then I think about the first two dresses I was torn between and wonder if I should have gone with one of those... but then I remember that I didn't get THE FEELING when I had those on and look at pics of me in my dress and I feel a lot better...

Has it been a while since you have seen/tried on your dress?? Maybe you should pay it a visit!!!

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i ordered it 12/8 so it hasent been that long at all.

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Hmmmm... maybe go try them both back on and see what happens. It shouldn't be too late to switch it at this point since it has been less than a month. Do you have pics of your dress and the one you are thinking you might want.

I cancelled my first dress after ordering it because i just didnt love it. I did however get the 'its the one!' feeling so don't always think that is right!

I ordered a second one and i liked it much better however in hindsight, i still never felt absolutely in love with my gown...just didnt happen for me..and that's ok...i felt comfortable and beautiful so I can't complain!

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Posted by FutureMrsSoltan

I am actually second guessing my dress. I think i may change to my original choice. I dont want to make the wrong choice but i keep wondering about this other dress.

anyone else ever secnd guess there dress ?

tia

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Meeeeeeeeeeeeee.....I bought a dress thursday and it haunted me for the next two days. I went to the store and got my dress yesterday...but the good thing is that I can say I have a reason. The first one was small and I bought it more because of the price but it was still beautiful but I kept thinking what if it doesn't fit me the right way the day.