Does anybody else do this? I am driving myself crazy. Everytime I book a vendor or make decision I am happy about, I second guess it 2 days later. I start worrying that maybe that isn't the right person or what if I could have gotten a better price. I have done that every step of the way. I have researched everyone I booked and looked at several different vendors before making a final decision but, I still do this. Does anybody have any advice??
tracyg
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I do that too... but just be confident about it. You booked them for a reason, you liked their work. So keep saying that to yourself 'i liked they're work!'.
Irishbride
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I do that all the time. As my friend said to me 'book it then forget it'. I was driving myself nuts.
aliciahelene
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I am so glad that you posetd this..I am second guessing everything, even my dress! Im afirad my dress isnt right..or Ill have the worng hairstyle, or too much makeup, I was so confident in everything..but now I am scaring myself. I dont know how to get through this..I wish I could stop it though. It does give me some ease knowing that others are going through this though!
kathy2176
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Thank you guys for replying! You made me feel better already. This is so stressful and FH is no help. I am going to try and be tough.
jvs77
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I have second (third, and forth) guessed about every decision I've made so far! But after stressing myself out over it, I always wind up concluding that I made the right decision in the first place. After all, we made the decision for a reason!!
Hang in there and try not to stress yourself out. When you need to make yet another decision, simply weigh all your options to the best of your ability and make the best choice you can (which is what you've been doing all along) - you will make the right decision!
smooch
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I 2nd guessed my dress, but I stuck with my first choice. Hey, I picked it for a reason, right? At any rate, I LOVE my dress, I love the pics that I have seen, and am glad I didn't try to change. Unless you have a really valid reason for rethinking your choice, chalk it up to nerves. You chose the vendor for a reason, remember that reason!
