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Second guessing DOJ (UPDATED with new purchase)

Jmrosa1 Posted:

Second guessing DOJ (UPDATED with new purchase)

So I am looking at my DOJ and I am not liking it much anymore. I am second guessing everything!! I have a strapless sweetheart dress, and now I am thinking to get rid of the necklace, and just go with regular drop earrings.

If you have a similar neckline did you go with a necklace and earrings, or just earings?

These are things I am considering instead.

Choice 1

Choice 2

Choice 3

Opinions plz ladies.

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**UPDATE***

Ok so went to Lord & Taylor and purchased these.....


(Please don't quote since I will take down the pic of me in my current DOJ)

And I am going to look for choice 3 as well...they didn't have them in store only on the website. And will compare and contrast them with the dress. lo
adelz Posted:

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It really depends on the style that you're going for - but I personally love the simplicity of a sweetheart neckline, and drop earrings. I'd go with choice 1 --- how are you wearing your hair?

chilly313 Posted:

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I really like #3.

I have a strapless gown with a sweethear neckline and had a very hard time deciding on DOJ. I must have bought (and returned) about 5 different sets. I finally decided on a delicate necklace and small drop earrings. All the 'bolder' necklaces I tried on just didn't look right with my dress.
Jmrosa1 Posted:

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Posted by adelz

It really depends on the style that you're going for - but I personally love the simplicity of a sweetheart neckline, and drop earrings. I'd go with choice 1 --- how are you wearing your hair?



I am wearing my hair half up half down. I love 1 too...but I don't know if i can bring myself to spend $100 on just earrings. lol.
adelz Posted:

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Ahh okay, in that case I would go with just drop earrings (make sure they're a big longer/chunkier and no necklace. This way all eyes are on your pretty face

Yeah I know what you mean about the earring price, I still can't believe how much I spent on mine lol
Jmrosa1 Posted:

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My mom says just wait and see how it looks with your dress..which isn't until Sept 14. I'd like to have a backup option to try on with it as well to see which looks better.

My current DOJ unfortunately I can't return, which stinks.
adelz Posted:

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So Macy's has a lot of really nice options similar to the looks you want. I'm gonna look some up for you now - and with those, you can return up to like 3 or 6 months..I'll look for you now. Uno secundo
CroatianBride Posted:

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I like #3

Jmrosa1 Posted:

Re: Second guessing DOJ


Posted by adelz

So Macy's has a lot of really nice options similar to the looks you want. I'm gonna look some up for you now - and with those, you can return up to like 3 or 6 months..I'll look for you now. Uno secundo



Thanks pumpkin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
leighlo1226 Posted:

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i like choice 1 and choice 3

i am wearing strapless and i am not wearing a necklace...
Cataverri Posted:

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I also had a starpless sweetheart and I didnt wear a necklace.

For the earring I love option 1.
ImgonnabeMrsC Posted:

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ah i like one or three ersonally!! but the price does matter, i get you on that one!! lord and taylor had a few nice pairs, i got mine there for 75

Jmrosa1 Posted:

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Posted by Cataverri

I also had a starpless sweetheart and I didnt wear a necklace.

For the earring I love option 1.



Yea your earrings are nice and bold and stand out. Very nice.
adelz Posted:

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Okay, not happy w/ Macy's, but Lord & Taylor has some GORGEOUS ones!!! Here are some of my top pics - all under $100

#1 Click



#2 LOVE THESE Click



#3 Click



#4: Super classy! Click



#5: Click



Soon2bShea Posted:

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Posted by adelz

Ahh okay, in that case I would go with just drop earrings (make sure they're a big longer/chunkier and no necklace. This way all eyes are on your pretty face

Yeah I know what you mean about the earring price, I still can't believe how much I spent on mine lol



ITA!
evita2781 Posted:

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i like the original earrings that you have. it's different. i had a strapless and didn't wear a necklace. it's your preference but i think it looks nice w/o one

Cataverri Posted:

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Posted by Jmrosa1


Posted by Cataverri

I also had a starpless sweetheart and I didnt wear a necklace.

For the earring I love option 1.



Yea your earrings are nice and bold and stand out. Very nice.



Thanks. I got them I think Macys or Sears.
BigDsGirl Posted:

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I have a sweetheart neckline and had a hard time debating whether I should wear a necklace or not, and once I tried on the dress, I decided it would look best wo it. I am going to just wear chandelier earrings.

Jmrosa1 Posted:

Re: Second guessing DOJ


Posted by adelz

Okay, not happy w/ Macy's, but Lord & Taylor has some GORGEOUS ones!!! Here are some of my top pics - all under $100

#1 Click



#2 LOVE THESE Click



#3 Click



#4: Super classy! Click



#5: Click






Beautiful!! You are wonderful!! I think I am going to try to get to a store to try some on.
IrishAli Posted:

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Drop the necklace and go for earrings

Go look at Lord and Taylor with a coupon. Their Nadri jewelry line has a bunch of great dramatic earrings for like $60 a piece regularly. You can use coupons on them. You can usually print coupons right from their website.

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