Second guessing my RH..

elp6421 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 08:06 AM

Second guessing my RH..

I think I am going crazy here! I am second guessing all of my decisions I have made so far...

Please tell me this is normal and I should just stop thinking about it.

Lsorrent Posted: Dec 01, 2009 08:14 AM

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Totally normal.........the Woodlands is gorgeous! No need to worry!

StaceyWill Posted: Dec 01, 2009 08:18 AM

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I think it’s very normal to second guess these big decisions we are making. Just try to think about why you booked it in the 1st place-it’s a beautiful venue

sandybeaches115 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 10:22 AM

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ive been second guessing mine as well...but honestly i think it's normal and Ive been to the woodlands and the food is great and it's such a beautiful place!!!

cherryblossom Posted: Dec 01, 2009 10:38 AM

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YES! I worried that it was going to be too expensive and that I was rushing into it without checking out enough places and that it was too far out and would be a problem to get to.. etc. etc. etc. every possible detail...

I became so ambivalent that I made FH feel as if this was a bad idea and he said that maybe we should put the wedding off till next summer until we find a place we feel sure about. So that was what we decided to do... and it was disappointing at the time but I decided it probably was for the best.

Right when everything had come together and we were about to book ALL of our vendors that I had been in contact with for months.. I cancelled all of it! I told them we were postponing and I would get back to them sometime in the future...

Those next few days were depressing. And I looked into other places.... and I just realized how PERFECT the whole thing was. And I felt really stupid for having doubts. I guess it wasn't until I decided to cancel it, that I finally felt confident about it. Needless to say I immediately contacted all my vendors (who seriously think I am the biggest FLAKE now) and immediately booked. And now I feel great about it.

That is my saga. And I am sure you would feel similarly if you cancelled it all on whim. You would realize that no place really compares and it is what you want. So yes... I do believe it is perfectly normal to have doubts.

MarjorieFrank Posted: Dec 01, 2009 10:46 AM

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I have second guessed every major vendor decision that I have made! It is totally normal, especially when you are constantly on this site and see/read amazing things about every other vendor.

jcreilly Posted: Dec 01, 2009 10:57 AM

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It is normal I have been second guessing everything about my wedding ( lol except my dress) I had a hugh nightmare that my whole menu for the Rh was wrong and the lines I picked where wrong. Dont worry it will be okay!

Tessie728 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 11:05 AM

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Posted by elp6421

I think I am going crazy here! I am second guessing all of my decisions I have made so far...

Please tell me this is normal and I should just stop thinking about it.

thats all i did for the first month!! I second guessed EVERYTHING and would spend hours online looking for reviews, etc to put my mind at ease!!
You chose it for a reason, trust yourself!

MrsC2010 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 11:07 AM

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obv i am biased bc i am a fellow Woodlands Bride...but don't be worried! The woodlands is beautiful and the food is great

FutureMrsLMS Posted: Dec 01, 2009 11:07 AM

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Its normal to second guess but think about what the choices were when you visited RH and why you picked your RH in the first instance. The Woodlands is very pretty and will undoubtedly offer fanstatic service, scenery and food. I dont think there is anytihng to worry about - when you have doubts, just focus on the positives that you will be getting from the RH!

justme4868 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 11:21 AM

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I second guess my decision every day. especially now since my FH is out of work and I have NO IDEA who we are going to pay for everything...but I think back to the day I looked at the place we booked and realize how it made me feel, how prefect the place was to me and I know its the right decision.

lillisa Posted: Dec 01, 2009 12:39 PM

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i 2nd guess every decision i make! you just have to take your time.. there is no rush you have plenty of time. the woodlands is beautiful from the room to the grounds its lovely.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 12:41 PM

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Definitely normal but the Woodlands is amazing!!!!

Im_My_Own_Princess Posted: Dec 01, 2009 12:56 PM

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I've second, third and fourth guessed my hall...
I've expressed it on here a few times, but the girls all gave me some good points.

But last night, I fell asleep totally regretting our decision... but there's nothing we can do about it. (I love my room, the food and the BM.. but HATE the outside, the CH room and the size of the hall)..

But like everyone said.. the woodlands is AMAZING, FH goes there monthly for work related meetings, and he RAVES about the food and look... it was out of our price range, but if it wasn't, we prob would have booked there.

is there any reason you're second guessing??

BriansWifey Posted: Dec 01, 2009 01:13 PM

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i've second guessed a lot of decisions we've made too, but i know im just being paranoid about everything and everything is going to be beautiful!!!!!!

pipermaru Posted: Dec 01, 2009 01:21 PM

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you will second guess the hell out of yourself during this whole process! don't worry about it :)

JenBill61210 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 01:50 PM

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you picked your RH for a reason right? it will be okay dont worry

kn2130 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 01:55 PM

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hey there.
i'm at Chateau Briand which i hear a lot of brides say is beautiful, but i can't help but think i made a mistake. we originally wanted something outdoorsy and ended up with something very different. but i guess this is normal right?

MrsDR2010 Posted: Dec 01, 2009 03:42 PM

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Tell me about it.....I do it all the time....especially now that FSIL found stuff cheaper than me I am doubting almost all my vendors and 2 of them more than the rest....so bad with one of them that I may cancel. It sux to be an OOT bride