Secrets

Can you keep them or do you always have to tell someone?

honestly, depending on the what and the who, I will sometimes tell the bomb.

it depends on the level of secrecy asked for/required.

I have things in the vault that Geraldo Rivera couldn't discover though.

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Posted by SuzBride

If it is a real secret, I keep it. If it is gossip that probably should be a secret, but no one specifically told me it was a secret, I tell DH. He usually doesn't care and zones me out, but I feel better.

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it is not gossip & I think that DH would care about this, but I feel bad telling since the person said not to broadcast it. If DH found out however that I knew-I think he would be upset that I didn't tell.

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Posted by BEANS

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Posted by SuzBride

If it is a real secret, I keep it. If it is gossip that probably should be a secret, but no one specifically told me it was a secret, I tell DH. He usually doesn't care and zones me out, but I feel better.

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it is not gossip & I think that DH would care about this, but I feel bad telling since the person said not to broadcast it. If DH found out however that I knew-I think he would be upset that I didn't tell.

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I would probably tell DH then. As long as DH won't broadcast it. It is better that he hears it from you, then hears it from someone else and then finds out you knew. My DH gets the exception rule, when needed.

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Posted by BEANS
it is not gossip & I think that DH would care about this, but I feel bad telling since the person said not to broadcast it. If DH found out however that I knew-I think he would be upset that I didn't tell.

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if it is not gossip, I may consider.

Vic HATES gossiping. It's rather annoying/endearing.

DH typically wouldn't care about other people's secrets so I don't bother telling him. I don't have any secrets of my own that he doesn't know about.

I'm a supreme secretkeeper. I've had some doozies about people I knew in the past.

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Posted by itslaurie.

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Posted by BEANS
it is not gossip & I think that DH would care about this, but I feel bad telling since the person said not to broadcast it. If DH found out however that I knew-I think he would be upset that I didn't tell.

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if it is not gossip, I may consider.

Vic HATES gossiping. It's rather annoying/endearing.

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he hates gossip ? that sux! mike LOVES it
and im so glad LOL

this is mean BUT it depends on who it is.
If it is someone who for some odd reason thinks we are close but we aren't I will tell my close friends and/or FH
If it is FH or one of my close friends - then I can keep my mouth shut!