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serious question ... how can you

brittndave Posted:

serious question ... how can you

hate someone on these boards? unless you have met them in person and they were a rude bittch to you, how can you hate them based on what they say/come off like on a computer?

AgaBride062610 Posted:

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Who do you hate?????

I believe you could hate someone just based on the way they are writting and their opinions..
MrsC2010 Posted:

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why....does someone hate u? or do u hate someone?


i dont think u can really 'hate' someone. i mean i think you can dislike some of the comments someone makes or maybe they come off as being rude/obnoxious but without really knowing them its hard to 'hate' them.
AngnShaun Posted:

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i think its possible... personality is shown through the posts we make... and you can not like someones personality...

grkbarbie Posted:

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lol it hink she means me.. when i wrote to haorula.. imagine u got a bride u hated for ornament swap.

lol


its not hard to hate some ppl lol trust me
brittndave Posted:

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no i don't hate anyone! as for someone hating me, i dunno i really can't say, haha...

i've just seen numerous ppl comment about hating someone on here a few times and i think it's silly. ppl could write something on here and it could come off in a completely different way than they intended it so i dunno how anyone could judge someone based on what they write on a chat board...

eta -- not just you barb
MarjorieFrank Posted:

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I don't think we can hate someone but you can definitely dislike people. Sometimes people are constantly obnoxious. Also, people think that because they are behind a computer screen they can type really harsh and powerful statements that end up hurting people.

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by brittndave

no i don't hate anyone! as for someone hating me, i dunno i really can't say, haha...

i've just seen numerous ppl comment about hating someone on here a few times and i think it's silly. ppl could write something on here and it could come off in a completely different way than they intended it so i dunno how anyone could judge someone based on what they write on a chat board...

eta -- not just you barb



i see what you mean... you cant really hate someone you dont know.... because you could meet them and realize you dont hate them...
regy_k Posted:

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I agree with others. u see the personality of a person conveyed thru their posts, and I dont say hate but just not vibing on the same wave length

brittndave Posted:

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wow i can't believe you guys. you really judge people on here based on the way you read and interpret things. that's a little immature don't you think?

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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While I wouldn't go so far as to say I hate anyone on here - hate is a strong word - I definitely strongly dislike a couple of people based on things that they've written. What was said was not something that could be open to interpretation, given that it's the written word - it was clear as day what they meant.

That being said, I never ever ever respond to anything those users post about, and if blocking them was an option - as you can do on other message boards - I would do that.
AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by brittndave

wow i can't believe you guys. you really judge people on here based on the way you read and interpret things. that's a little immature don't you think?



i see what youre doing....
christine2010 Posted:

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when typing on a post or a text message you can't see a persons facial expressions so sometimes people take things in the wrong way.

i also feel that sometimes you can tell if someone doesn't like you by the responses to a post. some posts get many, many responses where as others don't. i notice that sometimes its the same people posts who always get a lot of answers & the same peoples posts who don't get many answers.

also sometimes using the emote-icons ( ) can make someone feel un-loved.
grkbarbie Posted:

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i dont judge ppl on their fonts. i judge them when i meet them

SAFE!
MikesBride2B Posted:

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Posted by brittndave

wow i can't believe you guys. you really judge people on here based on the way you read and interpret things. that's a little immature don't you think?



See, I interpret this as insulting and it makes me not really like you as much.

Also, by you saying that you're making judgments against anyone who's said that they don't like people based on what they write.
kris_gets_hitched Posted:

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Posted by brittndave

wow i can't believe you guys. you really judge people on here based on the way you read and interpret things. that's a little immature don't you think?



We judge each other in good ways too based on what's written; how is that any different?
Kiki1103 Posted:

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Posted by MarjorieFrank

I don't think we can hate someone but you can definitely dislike people. Sometimes people are constantly obnoxious. Also, people think that because they are behind a computer screen they can type really harsh and powerful statements that end up hurting people.



ITA, people's personalities definitely come out on here after a while. I don't 'hate' anyone on here, but I think there may be people that I would not get along with.
regy_k Posted:

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Posted by brittndave

wow i can't believe you guys. you really judge people on here based on the way you read and interpret things. that's a little immature don't you think?



Britney, immature would be to start drama and insulting those ppl, just as Kris said not posting on those threads isnt immature. we cant like everyone after all or meet everyone to judge correctly
RitasEngaged Posted:

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Posted by grkbarbie

lol it hink she means me.. when i wrote to haorula.. imagine u got a bride u hated for ornament swap.

lol


its not hard to hate some ppl lol trust me



you couldn't have said it better barbs
CappyGirl Posted:

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Posted by Kiki1103


Posted by MarjorieFrank

I don't think we can hate someone but you can definitely dislike people. Sometimes people are constantly obnoxious. Also, people think that because they are behind a computer screen they can type really harsh and powerful statements that end up hurting people.



ITA, people's personalities definitely come out on here after a while. I don't 'hate' anyone on here, but I think there may be people that I would not get along with.



ITA - I don't know if you can hate anyone, really, but you get an idea of personalities and if they are people you would normally associate or get along with. And to add to what other said, I don't post that much, but I am more likely to respond to people who respond to me and have helped me in the past. For the most part I would say I like everyone though!

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