Seriously some people need to clean out their ears so they can listen better!!!!

I'm so pissed right now. When my BM's went to try on their dresses i told them that i wanted them to wear gold strappy sandals. I said this in front of my mother and one of my BM's mother who are both my cousins. So today my mother says to me oh your cousin bought her shoes i said what type of shoes. She says oh closed gold shoes..i flipped out i said wthhh i said sandals, closed shoes never came out of my mouth. My mother says well your cousin asked what shoes should she get her daughter (my BM) and i said i don't know so she got her those. I said umm there is a thing called a telephone why couldn't she call me and just ask. My mother says oh you should call her now wtfffffffffff is the point she already got the damn shoes!!! She is going to look like the oddball and i don't give a flying F!!! It's also funny because my other BM commented on that day of the dress fittings and said that she can definitely do gold sandals meaning that if one person heard why couldn't the other people in the same room all within close range hear me also..jeez..

Sorry for venting just so pissed right now. It's been back and forth with these people since day one

Re: Seriously some people need to clean out their ears so they can listen better!!!!

I know it's a stupid rant but it's just upsetting when no one listens to you. I also no theres more important things out there but this just pisses me off when no one listens and no one cares to just ask the source of the info who is me.

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not a stupid rant.. just ask for one thing.. whats so hard not to comprehend.... i am learning i have no pa tience with this whole wedding planning and dealing with other people.. lol i blow up so quickly.. anyone else finding that out about themselves???

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I get frustrated by things like that, too. Try not to let it get you too upset, though. Nobody's going to be looking at her feet. All eyes will be on you.

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It's not a stupid rant. I made three simple requests, and so far it's been eff you ali, we'll do what we want. All I wanted is that everyone wear flats, no boobs hanging out, and no hair in the same exact style as me. So this one is asking if they can wear heels, this one is saying they're going to do half up half down, so it's either I bite my tongue, or fly off the handle and become beechzilla. So I COMPLETELY understand your frustration!

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Posted by SoonT00beMrsC

not a stupid rant.. just ask for one thing.. whats so hard not to comprehend.... i am learning i have no pa tience with this whole wedding planning and dealing with other people.. lol i blow up so quickly.. anyone else finding that out about themselves???

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I try not to blow up but i ask for one simple thing and that can't even be done it's upsetting. Then what kills me is my mother tells her she doesn't know either like Hello ask me i see you everyday!! So stupid things like this make me blow up.

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Posted by meg922

I get frustrated by things like that, too. Try not to let it get you too upset, though. Nobody's going to be looking at her feet. All eyes will be on you.

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Thank you . I'm trying to relax by just posting on here and thinking of nice wedding things lol.

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Posted by coldasice217

It's not a stupid rant. I made three simple requests, and so far it's been eff you ali, we'll do what we want. All I wanted is that everyone wear flats, no boobs hanging out, and no hair in the same exact style as me. So this one is asking if they can wear heels, this one is saying they're going to do half up half down, so it's either I bite my tongue, or fly off the handle and become beechzilla. So I COMPLETELY understand your frustration!

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Those are totally reasonable requests. Who wouldn't want to wear flats and just do a different hairstyle..my goodness. Why can't they listen to us, us brides don't ask for much. I already have my girls wearing different dresses so they can be comfortable but i can't do enough i guess.

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not stupid! its your wedding day and you have a certain vision and they should be respectful of that
when you agree to be in a wedding party you should be under the understanding that the bride may have certain expectations

its is soooo easy to get annoyed at the bridal party....but just think of the end product being that you will be married and have a great day :)

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Posted by jenandmatt2009

not stupid! its your wedding day and you have a certain vision and they should be respectful of that
when you agree to be in a wedding party you should be under the understanding that the bride may have certain expectations

its is soooo easy to get annoyed at the bridal party....but just think of the end product being that you will be married and have a great day :)

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Awww thank you . I wanted them to take a shot of all of our shoes like i have seen alot of photographers do but now it's all screwed up . That is one of my visions that is now screwed up...grr

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Posted by GRod2Be

I know it's a stupid rant but it's just upsetting when no one listens to you. I also no theres more important things out there but this just pisses me off when no one listens and no one cares to just ask the source of the info who is me.

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G...not a stupid rant at ALL.....I think some of my BM's have selective hearing, because I get the SAME QUESTIONS OVER AND OVER....I even wrote all of the answers in an email.....I tell them the same $h!t all the time and no one gets it, at this point, don't put your mental health at stake Do what you can, some people will listen, some won't in the end, your day will still be totally fabulous!!!!!!!

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Posted by jennaandguy09

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Posted by GRod2Be

I know it's a stupid rant but it's just upsetting when no one listens to you. I also no theres more important things out there but this just pisses me off when no one listens and no one cares to just ask the source of the info who is me.

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G...not a stupid rant at ALL.....I think some of my BM's have selective hearing, because I get the SAME QUESTIONS OVER AND OVER....I even wrote all of the answers in an email.....I tell them the same $h!t all the time and no one gets it, at this point, don't put your mental health at stake Do what you can, some people will listen, some won't in the end, your day will still be totally fabulous!!!!!!!

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Thank you . Omg so true with the selective hearing!! They only listen to what they want not what we are saying we want something to be.