Sex: What are you doing? You have to hear what i Heard!
CrescentBride606
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Sex: What are you doing? You have to hear what i Heard!
Funny subject, but I was talking to a couple of friends of mine and we were talking about being a virgin and all that before you got married..blah blah blah...what I found out was that a lot my friends refrained from sex like 2 to 4 months before they got married...(which explains their craziness and mood swings) I was SO surprised..They said it would make for a better wedding night or honey moon....jsut Throwing it out on the boards!!!...thought I would share... I don't know if FI would handle that well!
LovelyChas
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FI will have a heart attack if I suggest months.....I'm trying to convince him that we shouldn't for at least a week and he's not trying to hear it
BKtoLI
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No way, no how.....it will be the only thing that will calm me down before the wedding!!!
CrescentBride606
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i 'll toast to that!
EmberLynn
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No reframing from sex here! Thats my orders! I just dont understand why people expect us to do that.
CrescentBride606
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maybe they think they'll become virgins again..?
soontobemrsv
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Posted by CrescentBride606
maybe they think they'll become virgins again..?
SIBride06
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Yeah right.. Imagine that... My FH would be like an animal. I cant even go near him sometimes.
MrsStefan
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FH and I were actually thinking about that. However, FH is not to happy with the idea. BUT, we would only go without for about two weeks or so...he wouldnt last longer
jax2718
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no way I think i will have a heart attack
ChrissynRicky
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what's a virgin?
Mrs. Powell
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DH and I abstain for three months before the wedding. It was really hard but it was worth it.
BKtoLI
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Posted by ChristineAE
what's a virgin?
Yeah I don't think being a 'born again virgin' is possible!!!
LaurenluvsTJ
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Honestly, I don't reallly understand this trend. Its one thing if you are really a virgin, but to have done it and then abstain for a certain time before the wedding, what exactly is the point? I think the wedding night and honeymoon will be amazing no matter what because it will be the first time as husband and wife.
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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ
Honestly, I don't reallly understand this trend. Its one thing if you are really a virgin, but to have done it and then abstain for a certain time before the wedding, what exactly is the point? I think the wedding night and honeymoon will be amazing no matter what because it will be the first time as husband and wife.
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I can understand abstaining b/c you don't want to get knocked-up...but abstaining to make it more 'special' - yeah...okay.
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just in my opinion of course... but if you have to abstain to make the wedding night better, one can't really have to much imagination in bed......
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Posted by CrescentBride606
maybe they think they'll become virgins again..?
MattsBride
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Posted by ChristineAE
what's a virgin?
cantwait2bewed
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I will probably do this for like 2 months
EmberLynn
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Guys I have a very disturbing story to tell you all about this topic! I use to work taking care of elderly nuns in a convent. Well they all knew I was getting married, there were 12 of them, and one of the oldest nuns and one of the most sweetist ones there asked me about my FH. What he looked like, was he good to me, then she asked, 'do you sleep with him often?' by the way shes 90! And then she asked if he satisfied me. Well before you could say hail mary, my face was ten shades of red . I answered:' Sister with all due respect, although I'm not of your faith, I'm convinced that if I answer your question I shall be stuck by lighting and fall though the earth in to the hell for sure.' She laugh and sent me off!
Sex talk with 90 yr old english-irsh nun is NEVER a good idea!