Shoes for BM

oldfriendoflive Posted: May 27, 2008 01:51 PM

Shoes for BM

Do you have a say in what shoe color and shoe the BM's wear for the wedding??

NickandTara426 Posted: May 27, 2008 01:52 PM

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Yes, it's your day your say. Sounds kinda b*tchy but I would have to say yes to that.

oldfriendoflive Posted: May 27, 2008 01:56 PM

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I was going to let them do whatthey want but now I am not so sure about them. I want them all to have the same.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 27, 2008 01:58 PM

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I think you can have a say...i have been in weddings where the bride picked out the exact shoe she wanted us to wear, made us have them dyed also..I have also been in bridal parties where the bride let us where whatever we want...its up to you!

ItalianMcBride09 Posted: May 27, 2008 01:58 PM

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My one Bridezilla moment, is they must all have the same shoe and color, my dresses are T-length and I think it looks so silly when they dont match.

PoppedInASnap Posted: May 27, 2008 01:58 PM

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Im telling them all that they need expresso brown shoes to match the sash and they can find their own.

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: May 27, 2008 02:01 PM

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yes the bride has a say in the shoes. I'm going to have my BMs in silver shoes cause we're doing pink dresses and i dont want them to dye their shoes pink since theyll never be able to wear them again.

NikkiR515 Posted: May 27, 2008 02:08 PM

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You definitely have a say! I personally haven't decide what color/style yet!

oldfriendoflive Posted: May 27, 2008 02:27 PM

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Posted by MaggieLuvsJoe

yes the bride has a say in the shoes. I'm going to have my BMs in silver shoes cause we're doing pink dresses and i dont want them to dye their shoes pink since theyll never be able to wear them again.

I like your idea. My sister told me to do silver also but I was nervous because my dresses have pink and ivory in it. I didn't want to put in too much colors. I am unsure what to do because I can alos have them wear all ivory. NOT sure on what to do.

shell1879 Posted: May 27, 2008 02:30 PM

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Posted by ItalianMcBride09

My one Bridezilla moment, is they must all have the same shoe and color, my dresses are T-length and I think it looks so silly when they dont match.

same here if their feet are being seen i think they should all match they are going to be in pics after all.

if you have long dresses and they won't be seen then i guess they could be different. my girls will have all the same

Autumnbride03 Posted: May 27, 2008 02:55 PM

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I actually don't like exact matching shoes... just my opinion... so personally I would probably pick a color and style (open toe, etc.) and have them go from there... not everyone will be comfortable in the same shoes!

Good point about tea length dresses- i would probably be a little more picky with these, but long ones, I would say who cares. As long as they go with the dress!

flairforfashion Posted: May 27, 2008 03:21 PM

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I am making the girls wear black dresses so black shoes are it. They don't all have to wear the same shoes.

chicky724 Posted: May 27, 2008 03:23 PM

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I was in my friend's wedding last year and she made us all get the same sandals... but I was ok with it because at least I didn't have to find them myself.

little34 Posted: May 27, 2008 03:53 PM

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Yes...but try to make it an easy color....a friend of mine had to try to find gold shoes with this and that and it was too specific... so get an easy shoe.