Should I be concerned???

WishfulRinne Posted: May 20, 2009 10:11 PM

Should I be concerned???

My responses are coming in slowly...like 2 a day...Im getting worried.
What do you think?

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: May 20, 2009 10:12 PM

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Posted by WishfulRinne

My responses are coming in slowly...like 2 a day...Im getting worried.
What do you think?

we are missing a lot and we probably aren't going to make our minimum...im trying not to worry yet.

GT143EA Posted: May 20, 2009 10:28 PM

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This is how mine havine been coming in too! I get like 1 or 2 a day. There is still about a month to my RSVP date so Im not worried.

meara Posted: May 20, 2009 10:33 PM

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That;'s how mine started and then I got a flurry of them all at once. . .then called people who didn't send them to nudge them and no one was offended. .

I ended up being a few under minimum and invited some folks last minute (I am two weeks away) who I had wanted to invite but cut when we cut numbers . and they were totally happy to come and were not insulted at all!!

so no worries girls. . they will come. .

kgicrls Posted: May 20, 2009 10:34 PM

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mine have there days. Some days I get none... and some days I get between 1-5. I am missing lots and only have like a week and a half for the rsvp date

NikkiR515 Posted: May 20, 2009 10:37 PM

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That is how mine went too.. Unfortunately I was missing a lot by the time the RSVP date came along (but bear in mind we invited TONS of people!!) but if you still have some time before the deadline I wouldn't stress about it too much..

WishfulRinne Posted: May 20, 2009 10:51 PM

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The RSVP is June 5th...Not much time

DonnaPWhite1124 Posted: May 20, 2009 10:54 PM

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I'm sure they'll start coming in very soon. Sometimes people wait to the last minute to RSVP ( I am guilty of it)

KimiDanny1010 Posted: May 20, 2009 11:06 PM

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how many invites did u send out ??

Sweeteey51 Posted: May 20, 2009 11:11 PM

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i get 3 a day only once did i get like 5. so they come slow.

allegracristina Posted: May 20, 2009 11:40 PM

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Posted by WishfulRinne

The RSVP is June 5th...Not much time

Still 2 weeks! People wait til the date to MAIL it!!! People are weird!!! It happened with me, just like that. They will come! And you will have to call some people for sure, but you will get all your rsvp's in order I promise!!! We JUST got all our final numbers/rsvps and did our tables yesterday for our wedding in 15 days!

MrsCM Posted: May 21, 2009 12:44 AM

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I wouldn't worry at all. Some days I get none and some days I get 5 or 6!

duggdugg1 Posted: May 21, 2009 12:53 AM

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Ours are coming in a few a day...but we are already getting a decent amount of NO's. Totally makes me sad...and we've only just begun. RSVP date is 6/25/09.

lauraandrob2009 Posted: May 21, 2009 07:38 AM

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We had a bunch in the beginning and then it's been super slow. When I looked at the list - half the problem is my own family who I know are coming and haven't sent them back. GRRRR. I just sent an email to them and also sent a note to a cousin (since a bunch of her family has sent back yet). Our date is a week away too so I don't mind 'encouraging' them witha reminder.

springsandra Posted: May 21, 2009 08:19 AM

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Posted by WishfulRinne

The RSVP is June 5th...Not much time

Mine's June 5th too! I'm still missing about 50 RSVPs (from about 120). I know a lot of people were waiting to figure out a few things before they sent them back, and to see if airfare drops a little, so I'm not worried about it. I also gave a good amount of time to grab the late-comers.

There's a guy from work I'd really like to invite, but am waiting to see how the tables are looking once my RSVP date passes.

If you still are missing a lot after the RSVP date, I'd suggest making some calls.

jsha20 Posted: May 21, 2009 08:21 AM

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That's how they trickle in two weeks before the RSVP date. You will get a bunch the week it's due and I even got some after. Also, your wedding is on July 4 weekend like mine is on a holiday weekend so people want to be extra sure they can come and people are just slow as snails to respond. Frustrating but hang in there!

emric Posted: May 21, 2009 11:48 AM

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I was thinking that last nite - I started getting a couple at a time and this week its been 2 at time.
I don't think you have to worry. I'm getting married the same day as you and my response date is June 5th so they still have time to get it out.

It's annoying - I know!

fabulousmady Posted: May 21, 2009 12:01 PM

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dont worry. they will start pouring in soon. mine started slow then I got a bunch at a time and a lot were also late! i had to make phone calls to track them down.